Chris Hatfield - Attachment 🧠
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Thursday 11 September 2025 17:02:53 GMT
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Rachel Maree :
This is so hard to go by but I’m learning
2025-09-12 10:41:04
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andibcreates :
It’s been only reason that I realize I had some sort of anxious attachment… I didn’t realize how many of these sites I actually had so thank you for helping me recognize them and practical ways for me to work through them at the same time 😊
2025-09-11 17:39:52
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Cool4D :
The thing is i know the healthy stuff but in the moment i still feel the unhealthy and cant cope it but afterwards i always know i was wrong and idk i cannot or dont know how to regulate my emotions
2025-09-16 12:29:35
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𖣂 :
I was unhealthy, starting to be healthy
2025-09-15 15:18:02
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Justme🇩🇪🇩🇪 :
If you give avoidant that space they won't contact for months.
2025-09-12 10:42:28
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em :
i mean she literally said to me “i can see ur notifs and choose to reply later bc i want to be productive”💀 in the time of thinking that a reply wouldve took less.
2025-09-12 03:44:54
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iko :
i used to be unhealthy anxious attachment but he taught me how to be better without even trying to do anything lol so i'm a little bit better
2025-10-24 21:05:14
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🩷La🩷Lisa🩷B🩷 :
So to be healthy, we have to compromise common courtesy, respect and the bare minimum to pander to them?????
2025-09-12 10:40:25
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Kyle Lee Maynard :
its odd how Tiktok can be plagued by really unhealthy videos, but then something like this shows up. its a perspective shift that really couldn't have shown up at a better time. ill save this and watch it periodically as a way of keeping myself accountable for my own insecurities.
2025-10-10 13:46:18
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Avery :
All of this if you are with a securely attached person. Most anxiously attached are with avoidants so things are not clear cut.
2025-09-12 01:29:48
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Nicola46 :
Great post. Thank you 🙏🏻
2025-09-11 17:34:04
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Caroling :
Realistic for them to respond when they can, yes. But leaving me on read for 12 hours then saying they were busy is not it for me.
2025-10-26 14:17:56
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Marvelgirll2 :
See this is how I think and believe but once sum happens like him not answering or cant hangout it all goes out the window and I freak out and start crying
2025-10-25 06:35:26
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Dens2020 :
Oh my god…..thank you
2025-11-12 08:49:05
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Wiz :
I think every single thing you said… damn it
2025-09-27 18:39:29
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Dragonladyvikingmama :
I don’t expect him to reply immediately but it also shouldn’t take 12 to 33 hours constantly, followed by a bunch of excuses about being busy or tired or his phone died, either. 🤷♀
2025-10-16 13:38:33
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Nehuen🥷🇦🇷 :
if you’re tired of chasing and ready to make them chase you the forbidden book The Dark Laws of Seduction by Caelum Noir might just be what you’re looking for but be warned this isn’t for the faint of heart
2025-09-27 22:38:58
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Callum :
I had adapted to healthy ones more recently but my overthinking makes me think about unhealthy ones
2025-09-12 23:45:25
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hmj414 :
is it too much to ask for a heads up text saying they're busy?
2025-10-28 04:01:08
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Spook :
your videos are such helpful reminders to me thank you for putting them out :)❤
2025-09-16 16:25:36
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Mickey :
these videos help me so much
2025-09-26 17:01:00
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Chance :
I'm hearing a lot of what's wrong with me, but not a whole lot of how I can fix the issue.
2025-10-31 07:53:06
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Kayylovee🌼 :
You’re the best! Thank you for this. You need a podcast
2025-09-29 23:52:59
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.S A R A 🌙✨💭 :
I love your videos! They describes it all so well 💯 and thank you for helping with that 🙏 that being said.. I’ve focused a lot on a lot of these different things and I can see how fare I’ve come over the last year. My attachment is very different, anxiety doesn’t control me anymore and I rarely spiral cause I can calm and rationalize my mindset and thoughts 💭
2025-09-23 19:41:08
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