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Saint Kim | Songwriter :
because they tell you over and over that it’s your fault and you’re the problem
2025-09-13 03:44:41
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Kirstin :
Me today trying to figure out if I am the narcissist 😂
2025-09-13 00:01:11
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🧘🏼♀️ :
not to mention when they switch roles with you, making themselves look like the victim.
2025-09-14 00:27:23
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hollycross822 :
My ex-husband kept accusing me of becoming angrier and said he had to walk on eggshells around me. I finally told him that IF I was actually angry, it was because of how he treated me. His response was, "Don't do that. Don't put that on me." 🙄
2025-10-22 14:02:10
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Cassandra Grace :
😭😭 its been a year and I sometimes still wonder if it was me. in the end I was having reactive abuse and he started saying I was abusing him and thay everything was my fault.. I believed and agreed, I completely fell for the gaslightling and manipulation. even now when I know I was abused for years before falling into reactive abuse I still feel so much shame and guilt for having those reactions instead of leaving like I should have. he discarded me in the end anyways, ghosted me after 3 1/2 years and immediately within 24 hours was back in touch with women I had caught him talking to from dating aps while we were together. I logically know and my therapist has gone over it with me but I dont know how to fix my brain at this point I wish I could just erase the whole relationship from my memories, I feel like Ill never feel normal again.
2025-11-03 03:54:28
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lily rose ⚢ :
needed this so bad thank you, i love your content so much
2025-09-12 16:37:35
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ReRe :
Thank youuuu so much
2025-09-13 00:34:47
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me 🤭 :
They never ask if they’re the narcissist 😭😭😭
2025-09-23 16:38:31
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Aaliyah :
This was so validating thank you 😭 she’s hard a VERY difficult childhood so this makes sense
2025-10-01 16:08:35
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Jennifer A Coyle :
Plus, part of your survival is learning to mirror them in order to keep the peace, directly from my therapist.
2025-10-10 12:07:59
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Dora Gillette 💗 :
I needed this so much. Could I DM you?
2025-09-15 18:45:39
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tif :
i dont know if i will ever stop thinking this but thank you for making this video & anyone who sees this vid needs to repeat it as an affirmation bc this is very helpful 😭
2025-10-10 16:11:59
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T ✨ :
You just clarified SO MUCH for me. Thank you ❤️❤
2025-09-13 23:08:47
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victoria❤︎ :
thank you
2025-09-12 21:36:26
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Noelleyyy :
Thank you
2025-09-12 17:56:29
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blair Ann :
Wow 🎤
2025-10-26 19:46:01
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AngelaGabriela🕊️ :
I love this. I asked my therapist if I was, lol she reassured me I wasn’t. Thank God for you & breaking it down for all of us 🥹🤍
2025-10-15 16:29:03
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Nayha Leonora :
Yeah…
2025-10-04 00:38:12
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Juan Galindo :
fr
2025-09-26 22:44:51
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🤍 :
But I already had cptsd and emotional abuse from family. I was told that I overthink, I make things about myself and that I am defensive etc. so how with someone who’s been abusive to me physically mentally emotionally etc. I know that I always look internally and take blame I mean my whole life i I was made to feel something was wrong with me. My mom is dead she was my only safe person. After she died her sisters emotionally abused me then made it seem it was the way I thought when I was just hyper vigilant bc of the way they treated me. Narc knows all of this and he started hitting me 2-3 weeks into knowing me. So now 4 years later idk if I’ve been so so gaslit and I always internalize i just don’t know what’s happening anymore. I’m so desperate for help and answers. You know I remember times throughout my life when I internalized something or overthink or was paranoid about something but 99% there was a valid reason to think that way. When I was around safe ppl I was ok. Yes I’m human I overthink and stuff but idk what to believe anymore. Now he’s like HES human and he’s allowed to be upset and stuff but all of these years he treated me like I wasn’t a human and I was humanizing him??? I’m so lost. Please help. Tomorrow I’m starting cbt just to have support and to process stuff. Trauma therapy I will be starting soon.
2026-07-24 00:10:48
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Marlzbarklee0814 :
But am I though? 😣😔
2025-10-07 16:52:33
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LonelyDoomScroll :
This is word for word what he told me after a night that he shattered a glass inside the house and then I ran after him and begged him to come back inside. I was told later that he “felt trapped when I ran after him and begged for him to come back and talk instead” I have been holding onto that as one of the reasons that what he did after that was justified because maybe I did “suffocate him”
2025-10-15 19:43:48
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alisonmusicc :
Wow.
2025-09-13 04:26:39
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