This is actually SO healthy. Trying to do the same
2025-09-15 00:28:18
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user030609 :
I think y'all with the wrong ppl
2025-09-14 18:25:18
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Dorothee Joselle :
saving for the future because im a lover girl at heart and tend to put my partner first. but i should be first because im always here for me and i need to respect that
2025-09-14 20:29:25
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Amber Akre 🇨🇦 :
youre basically in a relationship with yourself then
2025-09-16 17:44:17
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いいえ :
so yall want someone ur literally gonna spend every day with for the rest of your lives living together but need "space" from them.....i think yall are unhappy idk could just be me
2025-09-16 14:09:19
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main.acc.sus :
I think this is very healthy and reasonable, some people in the comments aren’t ready for this conversation yet
2025-09-18 20:54:18
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Healed&happy💓 :
Space is part of love .. I felt that. Thank you.
2025-09-14 06:55:04
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𝓐 🍸 :
You shouldn’t have to do this, you’re with an avoidant.
2025-09-17 05:37:16
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V :
Ur so much better then me. The slightest vibe off is setting me back and i overthink and think he doesn’t like me
2025-09-29 13:19:19
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tiach💕 :
my anxious attachment could never
2025-10-02 02:12:15
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autumn_wuest_ :
i really needed this rn thankyou
2025-09-14 21:56:51
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Elliot Tudor :
Its a very strange balancing act, i think i failed this in my previous relationship but I still would prefer more attachment then detachment even if the breakup feels worse
2025-09-14 18:26:09
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ontheverge_ :
These comments are NOT it. Are y’all 12? Having alone time does not mean you don’t love your partner…
2025-09-22 22:49:34
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Mimi :
Yup, this works for anxious attachment people when dealing with an avoidant who’s on a healing journey.
2025-09-19 03:25:22
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astrometric_binaries :
So this guy I’ve been seeing for 3 months went on a weekend trip to Vegas and blocked me from seeing his insta stories. Everything had been great up until this weekend. Dealbreaker?
2025-09-16 06:11:29
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McKynlea Kitsch :
There is so much beauty in still allowing time for yourself. My relationship hasn’t been healthier since allowing time for ourselves individually.
2025-09-14 21:50:34
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micheleee ✨💕 :
I love this. Wish I was more mentally aware than being overly emotional and just reacting.
2025-09-14 22:26:45
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ziaxaiz_ :
Comment sec doesnt know how important it is to have individuality within a relationship and it shows... it's not about disliking your space with your partner. It's about loving/learning to enjoy your time with yourself with or without your partner's presence.
2025-09-23 16:30:14
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★ :
too much detachment makes you see people as replaceable and that in the long run ain’t healthy for a relationship.
2025-09-26 04:45:38
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Rycileille :
This is what a mature relationship looks like. Thanks for sharing🫶🏾
2025-09-27 04:48:21
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Benedict :
this is for people who get anxiously attached 🥲
2025-10-01 23:18:47
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Saltisha2 :
What’s the point of being with someone if this is how it is? You’re alone already. Why not just actually be alone
2025-09-14 20:06:06
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mys333ungmin :
Yalls in the comments fighting over things like you can't do both ... i mean i can be very much in love with my significant other while also very much in love with myself, and i'm trying to nurture myself, my so is trying their way, but along the way we can also help each other through our self-nurturing journeys, no pressure just voluntarily do it out of love
2025-09-29 19:07:54
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dev2goated :
isnt that basically same as friends? Why love someone if 75% of the time you're trying to find space for yourself? Might as well break up then 💀
2025-09-28 17:32:55
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️ :
Remind me to watch this again.
2025-09-19 08:31:48
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