Lost my husband to a massive heart attack in April 2011. We all deal with grief differently. I was numb but I too did not cry a lot at wake or funeral.
2025-09-14 12:03:22
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Sarah :
She's a strong woman. Strong enough to come in front of the camera the way she did...we don't know how she's behaving off camera. Also, everyone grieves differently and it's no one's place to say that someone is doing it wrong, because there is no right or wrong way to grieve.
2025-09-15 02:17:04
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Terri Lynn ❌🇺🇸 :
We literally go on autopilot and have to stand strong for the kids. People will never understand unless they went through it. They need to thank God for that!
2025-09-14 20:55:35
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Just me :
Yes
2025-09-14 19:00:41
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Nicki Pellegrino :
Until you go thru something like this you can’t understand how that person feels.
2025-09-14 03:23:34
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Southern Transplant :
People without faith just DO NOT GET IT.
2025-09-14 11:56:37
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apoisonberry :
they think they know how they would handle a situation like that. you will never know unless you are in that position.
2025-09-14 02:42:17
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marcidavis810 :
Sje did this to assure those that loved his platform that it would keep going
She did this to rise up against those who took her husband. She did this because she knew the country needed to see her strength. She did this so we would hear her battle cry and take up our own cross and be the light in this dark world. Just my feelings after watching her.
2025-09-14 06:21:35
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Mjjwight.2 :
You can move on in someway, but you never get over losing your soulmate in life!
2025-09-14 12:21:07
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WNCstressedNconfused_mom :
She is acting. She is acting like she is in control because the cameras are there. She is broken and putting on a brave face. 💔
2025-09-14 01:15:02
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Amanda :
I feel awful for Erika....I couldn't do it ..she is a strong strong faithful woman
2025-09-14 04:01:34
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Lisa Myers835 :
until you experience it you won't understand how it affects you. I cried at night. I'm not someone who cries in front of people. I was in shock for months. i can't imagine being in the public eye after such a loss
2025-09-14 04:22:32
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Jen :
My heart goes out to her and her family. She has not only had to experience such a horrific tragedy, but because they were in the public eye the expectations put on her to be presentable, make a statement, and to be strong is so high. we need to remember the most of us when we don't have to grieve in the public eye and those expectations are not put on us. we all grieve differently and right now she's trying to hold it together for her children and for the mission she has ahead, as she said she wants to make sure his legacy is carried on and his name is never forgotten.
2025-09-14 12:47:30
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Nikki❌ :
I mean, this is totally kind of off the subject, but this my mom passed away at a pretty young age. She was only 66. I am the older sister. I have two at the time young boys my mom‘s husband at the time it wasn’t my dad they were divorced He was a tool. Let’s just put it that way, so it was up to me to handle everything. I was taking care of everybody else and not myself so I didn’t grieve my mom until several months later when I was alone by myself, the family has left. The memorial was done cause she was cremated and I was by myself. There was nothing left to do. That’s when I grieved cause I had to be there for my sister who was in complete shambles. I had to be there for my boys because my boys were everything to my mom so it was up to me. I was the big sister. I was the mom.
2025-09-14 17:43:32
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FaithfulMama✝️🇺🇸 :
We just lost my mom in April after years of battling COPD, I cried for her relief I don't think I really mourned bc she's better now. But a young healthy life should be gut wrenching to normal ppl. I've sobbed for that family, the witnesses, and even Tyler himself bc this is not how our world should be. I've prayed for them all so hard.
2025-09-14 12:19:49
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🇺🇸Tracy 🇺🇸⚓️ :
She is having to mourn the loss in ways many never will have to. her husband's death was in a very graphic and public way. too many had to see her husband pass. not only did she and have to remove it in her own mind but she can be online and see it. she has people speaking of it in detail. millions are saying his name. I can't imagine anyone losing their spouse much less in the way she did.
2025-09-14 12:57:12
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brandi____boo :
They think it’s weird?, how would they do it? I think it was beautiful what she said. People act like they would do it better.
2025-09-14 13:11:34
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warriormom! :
I admire her so much! Those comments came from people that obviously haven't experienced a great loss.
2025-09-14 03:58:05
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Ruth Mangham :
We put our “mom” hat on and keep going once things calm down and everyone leaves we break down
2025-09-14 12:54:39
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Ann3721 :
Yep! With my late husbands sudden death I was in shock. Zero chance I acted normal. And I had to take care of a freaking infant. I was in a daze for at least a year. I was a zombie.
2025-09-13 22:48:16
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Kylee :
I was truly in awe at how graceful she was. I can't imagine being in her situation and not being in one extreme or the other. She's showing how truly of a strong, Godly woman she is. Sending hugs and prayers to you, Mrs. Sara, on you and Mr. Scott's anniversary. And sending prayers to the Kirk family.
2025-09-14 01:08:39
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user8149717061214 :
She has also been thrown into the public eye expecting her to feel a certain way. NoOne should be judged on the way you grieve.
2025-09-14 17:31:09
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Tommi Lin :
Everyone grieves differently… I have no idea what it’s like to lose a husband, I pray I never know. When I lost my mom, I didn’t react like everyone thought I would.
2025-09-14 12:39:11
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Jean Barnotes :
I’ll be honest, when she first came on, I felt the “acting” thing. And then I took a moment to realize this woman is still in shock. She’s just trying to make sentences at this point.
2025-09-14 11:48:38
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Nicki Pellegrino :
Everyone deals with grief differently doesn’t make to a bad person. The hell with what people think.
2025-09-14 03:26:36
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