but avoidants still get demonised and anxious gets babied
2025-09-13 23:29:49
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Juliette :
It sucks and everyone acts like we’re evil
2025-09-15 00:55:43
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mora :
'you dont even try' i really do but it feels like im burning alive.
2025-09-14 18:20:18
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nnalakoalaa :
bro i say all the time being avoidant to me probably feels so claustrophobic? like how you have a desire for honesty and vulnerability but can’t express yourself or the fear keeps you silent, i feel like ill blow up if i don’t let out my emotions properly so i can’t imagine
2025-09-14 04:16:03
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🥞 :
thank you, it’s literally hell over here
2025-09-14 09:18:39
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lifeofpaige :
Exactly and I notice people keep using avoidants and narcissists as if they're the same and they're really not
2025-09-14 13:34:49
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༒︎avery༒︎ :
That's the first time I see someone who's not throwing bricks at avoidants 💔
2025-09-14 22:20:06
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ariesjassarai :
actually so sad bc wdym im losing the person i loved the most because i cant show proper affection even though to me it feels like the most i’ve done everrrrr
2025-09-15 02:22:55
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Eilidh Cowan :
It’s like someone holding a hand over your mouth and you wanting to scream but you can’t
2025-09-14 11:03:56
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re :
they never put in the work though
2025-09-14 10:44:32
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allie :
i wish he understood me bc i like him sm
2025-09-14 23:51:33
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𝐅𝐀𝐄 :
It like being starving but convinced all the food you’re offered is poisoned
2025-09-14 21:03:35
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lexi 💫 :
It sucks 💔
2025-09-15 02:43:24
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judrehtdirkippchen :
and still people wish literal death on us, like what?
2025-09-14 19:56:10
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silkandscar :
Don’t feel sorry for them. They have resources and opportunities to grow and learn. Last time I’m letting my empathy see the best in anyone.
2025-09-14 16:38:45
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angela🪭 :
Any advice on how to be supportive of a loved one with avoidant tendencies?? Genuinely asking
2025-09-14 19:34:11
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masuღa :
can’t lie the main reason we don’t show much is because people make us look like fools ALL THE TIME
2025-09-14 11:10:55
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Tjoa Yummy :
so what happened to the people on the other side? is it fair to feel bad on avoidant but not for the people on the other side?
2025-09-15 05:49:31
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mulledwineluvrrr42 :
i experience both and the avoidant part is actually worse trust me!!!!
2025-09-14 12:05:11
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madi :
it's actually horrible bc when i really really like someone, i get physically so sick 😭😭
2025-09-14 22:12:51
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erica 🤠🇲🇽 :
so if yall know yall are avoidant why date and hurt ppl? I mean yall are aware so stay away or date other avoidants or maybe start by saying you are avoidant so the person you're dating can be prepared? I don't hate avoidants but if you're aware of your actions, then is there really an excuse?
2025-09-15 01:15:33
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jay (Niran’s version) :
I refuse to pursue relationships unless the person is stubborn or pushy about it. It’s hard out here.
2025-09-15 01:29:49
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f☆tou :
Girl I LOVE YOU the way we’re villainized on this app is CRAZYYY 🙄it’s horrible for us too
2025-09-14 14:41:17
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Poppy :
Thanks for sympathising instead of demonising 😓
2025-09-14 16:42:54
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