@ask_julia: On your next first date, skip the small talk. The best question to ask a man if you’re serious about marriage is simple: “What did you learn about yourself from your past relationships?” His answer reveals if he’s grown or if he’s still blaming his exes. 🚩 This is how high-value women spot accountability, maturity, and true relationship potential. 💡 Save this for your next date and follow me for more dating hacks, relationship red flags, and feminine energy advice that keeps you from wasting time. #datingadvice #feminineenergy #highvaluewoman #relationshiptips #firstdate