Em | Trauma & Abuse Educator
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Jami🖤 :
Yup, and it’s so sad because you never really ever knew who they really were
2025-09-15 01:52:31
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🙏🏻CHRISTIAN VEE🙏🏻 :
Yes. I feel like I fell in love with someone that never existed. When I showed resistance and took my control back, the rage came out, eyes turned black. Scared the shit out of me.
2025-09-15 03:08:24
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Shirley | Narcissistic Clarity :
Once you see them, they want out
2025-09-16 13:16:58
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acnekinga :
It’s so cruel. Discard without explanation. Hurts more when you showed him love, kindness and patience and he didn’t appreciate this. Now I feel like I never really mattered. Makes me doubt my worth ngl
2025-09-15 08:54:46
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Whatever :
Took me months to accept this, but I truly believe that I was discarded because I began to see her for who she really is. After years of abuse, I started to recognize her patterns, and manipulative tactics. When I stopped falling for the manipulation, I became useless.
2025-09-16 20:06:44
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moo696969 :
Can’t tell if he was a narcissist or avoidant. How do u tell the difference
2025-09-20 01:22:28
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Sarah :
And you can’t unsee it once you see it 😳
2025-09-15 21:08:58
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Nunya :
they couldn't tolerate the version of themselves that you started to see.....love that
2025-09-28 21:37:22
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Beeeee____🖤 :
This is why I leave before I get left 🔥 ladies learn this asap
2025-09-15 14:02:13
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Chloe ♥️ :
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽they need their ego boosted by outsiders patterns
2025-09-15 19:27:14
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Sheree che parties :
yeah the financial side. I didnt supply financially anymore 😳
2025-09-15 08:23:46
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Abby Taney :
I just dealt with this. I stopped giving in, he realized I saw him and he started hanging out with females that would disrespect me and he was okay
2025-09-17 02:11:05
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YieYie200 :
Agree, he discarded me when I started calling him out. Question: Attention, admiration and validation — how should we think about these as different?
2025-09-15 06:04:51
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Adielush :
He discarded me when we had a “fight” because he lied to me about something important and I was angry and felt like shit. That same night I got the message
2025-09-15 13:15:15
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Tilly :
When u do a charlie kirk on their ass....calling them out on their gaslighting, manipulation, coerciveness they do the backwards man...you're dealing with an insecure weak b*tch. keep it all the way 💯
2025-09-16 10:12:36
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Violet P. :
Now that I divorced him, I see even more clearly all the 🚩’s I ignored. I understand now that I was manipulated & he wore many masks. 🎭
2025-09-16 06:05:12
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Heidi :
and painful to think you wasted all that pain and time and energy on someone who was playing you the whole time
2025-11-03 09:16:09
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ᥴꪖᦓᦓ ꪀꪖᦔ꠸ꪀꫀ ᥫ᭡ :
Yup my $ ran out and I was ghosted then dumped thru text - he already had a man lined up for him (literally)
2025-09-15 21:11:15
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🙏🏻CHRISTIAN VEE🙏🏻 :
Despite being treated like garbage in the end, I have love and empathy and actually feel sorry for them. That's how God is working in my life 🙏🏻
2025-09-18 17:06:11
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Nickypoo :
exactly. it's like a reset button for them
2025-09-15 21:46:52
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ThatsMYApenion💕 :
He’s just so good at deflecting when I confront him about his behavior, he’s so quick to tell me my memory is wrong, or make me feel like I’m being dramatic by belittling my points, it’s not even that I feel like I’m being dramatic, I just feel like that’s all he will ever see me as and there’s not even a point.
2025-09-18 07:29:36
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Phoenix Wolf :
Wow real
2025-09-14 21:46:03
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clearingtraphiq :
Thisssss right here. Its realistically the biggest if not the only reason they discard or force you to revise discard if they see how much you know and cant risk you revealing anymore.
2025-09-16 09:59:16
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Jah-merican :
well said im glad im free i told him I was done n never looked back
2025-09-17 12:09:01
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StrangerDanger :
When I have learned about the types of narcissists, why did my ex seem like he was all of them. Can that even be a thing ?
2025-09-15 07:02:02
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