@nicolo.contrada: Control the controllable

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firemedia65654
firemedia65 :
Stoicism saved me from my borderline personality
2025-09-15 18:04:44
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neo_yorq2.1
York :
Just remember, stoicism is not about loosing empathy. Being selective about what you put effort is.
2025-09-15 13:15:07
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unclelaney
Laneycat :
I love stoicism. That ish saves
2025-09-15 08:41:24
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subermemes
مستر شمس ☀️ :
Please don’t teach TikTok the actual philosophy of stoicism, they’ll rearrange the meaning of it 😭
2025-09-15 15:17:06
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avalosye
AvalosYE :
Just know, stoicism is NOT about suppressing feelings, it’s about embracing them, asking yourself, “is it worth it and reasonable to feel this?”.
2025-09-15 17:30:35
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heathergulli37
Heather Jane 🥀 :
I’m just bitter now. Everything else is gone.
2025-09-15 17:28:09
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robertpaulson4692
Robert Paulson's revenge. :
I control what I can, everything else I trust to the LORD. everything is a lesson if you trust the teacher it's less painful to learn.
2025-09-15 13:03:00
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ihaveyourcat
alice :
it’s not stoicism, it’s learned helplessness
2025-09-15 23:18:40
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ariana_always_official
𝐀𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐧𝐚 𝐀𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬♡☆°▪︎ :
To anyone reading this or scrolling past this, no matter what your life circumstances might be right now, maybe you feel scared because you don’t know how your life will go on, maybe you’re sad because you lost yourself, maybe you are fighting battles no one knows about, I am proud of you my dear stranger. I hope you know how proud I am of you, you fought so hard to be where you are right now, and here you are. you are not okay but you are still here, thank you for being here. i love you. never give up on yourself, and if you do, I will not give up on you. your life matters, you matter, and you are enough always. no matter what. keep going. Don't waste a damn minute and go and live trust me <3
2025-09-16 20:27:07
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enmaxx25
enmaxx25 :
Is it really stoicism to that point or mania
2025-09-15 23:03:54
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averagefrontbottomsfan
🪲 :
but how do you achieve it without just feeling apathetic
2025-09-16 16:48:20
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humanchaotic
Trashcan_Reba :
Stoic absurdism 🤝
2025-09-16 02:32:47
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kaleyrodgers
kale :
I can see the pain in your eyes. Hope you feel better soon.
2025-09-15 04:58:23
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cherrywine2014xx
ꨄ 𝑪𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒓𝒚 ꨄ :
I’m getting to this point tbh. Everyone on this app be thinking they a mastermind and have to control everything and that’s cute until life properly humbles you, gives you cptsd and you realise there are indeed some things you cannot control.
2025-09-17 06:10:54
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yu00xl
yu00xl :
To the point where it becomes dissociation
2025-09-16 10:09:49
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mogeter4
MoGeter :
my son took that route. I admire and respect him IMMENSELY. he's patient and kind and picks his battles wisely. at my big age he's the first person I call when I need a voice of reason. I, a stranger on this internet, support your decision 👍
2025-09-16 10:20:20
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mildlyaggressive
mildlyaggressive :
stoicism saved me. I started trying out the mindset three years ago and it's done me more good than any therapy. I am the king of my trauma. I decide what effects me. I am strong.
2025-09-16 06:12:46
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ilygeli
geli :
yea im boring now & idc
2025-09-15 21:08:09
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likeitorleaveit_
Get off my account. :
To be stoic is to have that constant neutral blank look in time of stress and anything meant to push you or if you mess up
2025-09-17 14:54:39
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niyaaaa_116
niyaaaa_116 :
Just staying focused on what you can control and change, and not focusing on fixing what I have no responsibility or control of fixing. It is slowly healing my mind fs
2025-09-15 22:01:47
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na.s0ze
na.s0ze :
Stoicism in my experience is peace, no more wearing my pride as armor and neglecting how I feel. I simply accept things as they are and choose to prioritize my energy on what fits me it’s like retiring from stress
2025-09-16 15:26:03
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unclelaney
Laneycat :
Whoa😳 a LOT of ppl have interesting definitions of a stoic. It is NOT shutting off all emotion and feeling in control bc of it. Jesus is the undebated world’s best stoic no matter the religion or belief. JESUS. It’s more like radical acceptance, mental toughness that looks like peace and most importantly love. It feels like a cheat code
2025-09-16 21:56:57
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ashzombiee_09
ᗩSᕼ 🎀𖤐 :
Remember that the only thing you can control in life is yourself.
2025-09-16 17:15:42
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