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thats kinda too much i think i mean mbti are a concept and just because you know im intj doesent mean you can nearly see the the systhem in my mind so why should i see thad in others and just because i have empathy why the heck shoulf i know your whole past and...well im more off getting sucked in by others emotions anyway at least if i care about them ... like really really really care
2026-05-13 17:04:56
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SuchFun :
😳😳😳 Feeling called out, and yeah I don’t want it anymore, take it back and I want to trade it in for something with less responsibility, please and thank you. I am INTJ/INFJ empathic, I’ve moved through all the stages and strive to be a sovereign empath, deloping high levels of integrity and morals has always been ingrained with me, so the dark manipulative side I am able to keep at bay. I know it’s my job to help people see what I see and process and understand their emotions, but if they’re not ready then I need to learn to let them be ready at their own pace and respect them. It’s exhausting when everyone tells me their stuff, they feel instantly seen and open up, it feels like they’re dumping on me. It’s scary what strangers are willing to tell me and they have know idea why they told me personal things about their lives. In person or on the phone I can normally feel what others need to hear pretty instantly in a conversation, which is freaky and second nature at the same time. I will code switch subconsciously when speaking to someone with an accent to match them, I can’t control it. Like I said I don’t want it, life would be easier and less lonely if I didn’t have this personality type. I have to remind myself to check in and feel my own emotions, being focused outward on everyone else I forget to put myself first a majority of the time. It makes me feel guilty when I do. No one in my life really knows, they just think I am empathic and nurturing. Which i know is why I can feel completely alone when surrounded by friends and family. I am still waiting for someone to see me and be there for me. Someone said we are less than 1 percent, I learned for males it lower. It’s less than 0.2 percent to be both INTJ/INFJ, 1 out of 500-1000 males. Being rare is nice to think you’re unique... but it’s also really lonely for no one to understand who you really are and not have meaningful equal connections with people that go both ways.😔
2025-11-07 09:20:21
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MoreLogicLessEmotions :
Everyone here thinks they’re part of the 0.1% 😂
2025-10-17 17:45:56
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ZenPortal :
Ive spent a good 20 years or so on becoming what Jung describes as a soverign empath without knowing it. He is spot on, I went through all of the different archetypes and traps he described verbatim for years and years and years finally to this culmination point. Curious if anyone else has gone through something similar.
2025-09-15 20:53:45
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elliepucketttarot :
I’m INFJ-T
2025-09-17 00:20:44
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Noa :
INTJs are not empathetic.
2025-09-16 03:09:19
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Faithtasia :
My problem is seeing the way to help and the individual not willing to heal. I must separate myself from overwhelming emphathy
2025-09-15 09:56:36
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tylerj944 :
I just realized recently this about myself. I’m an INFJ, I just see now, mostly out of protection and trauma..But with understanding people it’s so automatic and methodical. It’s not burdensome 99% of the time, it’s learning and enjoyable to a point.
2025-09-16 02:46:24
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momOfTHEfloofs :
well here I am...wondered why I hated being around people but all animals are fine 🥺
2025-09-16 00:16:22
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Nova :
INFJ dark empath…. And I love my space and be away from others , buth they look at me like very nice kind and good vives …animals like to be around me and weird concidences happen very often..
2025-10-04 13:40:46
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Andrew 🌙 :
Infj- Starseed
2025-09-16 20:11:38
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ab_phxsl :
INTJ- Heyoka Empath… natal chart, Human design, destiny matrix all align. Pretty wild, spot on 👍
2025-09-16 01:53:00
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LR_🌱💚🌿 :
This is why I just stay home. It actually makes genuine human interaction difficult. I feel like I’m being invasive reading into people that much. I try not to.. but honestly people are quite predictable & not that complex. Just running various programs. The “everyone thinks they’re part of the 1%” comment, great example of that. Yes empathic INFJ, although the written mbti my scores split soooo close INFJ/INTJ. One point off.
2025-11-15 08:48:08
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tredshead :
INFJ DARK EMPATH
2025-09-17 02:13:28
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Emily Linh Pham :
I am always able to manipulate and lead people to the route that I wanted with good intentions of course, I would plant seeds of data that generate certain ideas in people's minds which eventually lead them to follow my vision then I would feel extremely guilty if that vision has a negative outcome, on the other hand if that vision has a positive outcome, I would have this god-like feeling, It is like a sickness that I'm still trying to work with 😳
2025-10-23 15:43:26
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mc19 :
Does constant nagging of not appreciating life at all come hand and hand with infj?
2025-10-27 02:59:44
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Faithtasia :
Ive been plagued with 90% of this post. My jaw is on the floor. Ive never been able to explain it in words.
2025-09-15 09:39:06
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Shiko_k.e♑️🇰🇪 :
I'm INTJ💀
2025-11-13 11:18:24
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chocohani :
the way the narrator pronounced every letter in intjS and infjS
2025-10-21 14:36:23
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Ghost :
i see the architecture.
2025-10-23 20:22:03
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Nicola Wilson :
It’s like listening to myself going through psychological stages of my life to come out very selective in when I use my skills and on whom. You don’t want to tap into everyone or everyone realise you can tap into them.
2025-09-24 21:54:46
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BIDIGI.ID :
too much data, it's no wonder they are always anxious and restless, Peace what human neeeds the most
2025-11-06 01:26:23
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Sandee 伊芮宁 :
I can relate to this. I have always said “it sounds crazy” that I felt like I could feel what people think from body language. See who/what somone is about without saying a lot. Visual deep thinking .
2025-10-19 04:39:04
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