@psych.2.grow: How to make An Avoidant Fully Commit And Never Pull again #AttachmentStyles #avoidantEx #

Tiffany :

Avoidants should be with each other or alone

Abena Dwamena :

Trying to win an avoidant over will drain you physically and emotionally

Tausha 💋 :

I think this is so true. I’m a secure attachment style, and he is absolutely amazing and healing through me.

! :

Can we just agree that it’s not worth it to date an avoidant?

nathalie.sr1 :

Avoidants have been created to unlock peoples better version for the person who will truly love them. They force a painful rebirth to then leave.

Carole E Johnson :

Who in the hell has that much time?

Elle :

It’s like having a child

Maggie 🇨🇦🇵🇹 :

Avoidant mind games are way too draining. Avoidants need to emotionally grow up or they have no business being in a romantic relationship. My advice is move on to a mature relationship. Avoidants don’t change. They are takers & immature.

アヤセ :

So the key is I need to be patience give her space and live my own live without begging the attention from her? I try this method i keep updating in this comment thanks

K :

Sick of avoidant games. I gave my all, but he disappears for days and comes back like nothing happened. Too late. I’m done waiting, I won’t chase or beg anymore. Goodbye.

Ranger🪖 :

“How to meet someone else’s needs and not your own”

deeys_beauty :

Avoidant men should date avoidant women to save us this stress 😂

Viaerie :

blablablablabla. Its always the avoidant that needs to be treated well. Avoidants dont even care with all the effort.

Poseidanda :

They need therapy. If we as anxious attachments have to heal and stop requiring constant reassurance, they need to heal and stop shutting out affection, love, and commitment. Two people could be perfect for each other, but if they refuse to heal their traumas, it will just repeat itself. Let's stop normalizing attachments styles or enabling the patterns, start healing our childhood wounds!

AZ Tattoo artist :

Find yourself anxious or secure …. No avoidant …

Samantha :

In other words ,always be available to them?Even though they treat you like an option?

HoneyBunlolcx :

Cool. 🙃 They can have all the space they want. 👌🏽

simamkelengqengel :

PinkAura :

dont waste your energy ladies

︎A. :

it's so funny that we need to match their pace even when we are hurting doing so, but because we love them so much we do it.. ts hurts because we are the ones hurting trying to change ourselves for them..

ᨰׁׅꪱׁׅᥣׁׅ֪ժׁׅ݊ :

Avoid avoidants like the plague

Jasamb03 :

Sounds like do everything for them forgetting your own wants and needs

magnolia :

The moment you realise a person is an avoidant run. Run as far away as possible. You'll thank me later!

BadsmogGames :