This really speaks to me… Even though I know he loves me deeply, it still hurts to realize that, no matter how well he treats me, a part of him will always belong to his past—and that’s something I can never compete with, no matter how much love I give or how hard I try.
2025-10-01 08:29:49
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🎻 :
i just want her to love me like its her first time again 🙁
2025-09-29 15:22:15
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arai✶ :
its not our mistake for love them so much but its their mistake that me us feel like that, if they cant move on or cant forget their past why they want to get know us right? at the end its gonna hurt us , conclusion heal first and open up when they ready to been in love again , dalam mencintai takde nya untuk pandang masa lalu, sepatutnya terima apa yang ada sekarang, for those out there dont ever make your partner feel like this, focus on your present partner and love them with all your heart!!
2025-09-15 17:00:30
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paishhh :
so what i suppose to do , just let them be?
2025-09-17 05:57:31
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limwel :
im sobbing rn because its her birthday tomorrow and I showed my long letter to my friends and said that her ex made a letter too but longer. Now, I'm comparing my self to her past.
2025-10-31 10:16:48
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gray :
NO, not all. They can always find a different kind of love through us (new bf/gf) let's not compare ourselves to their pasts because we can always have something to offer better than what they received from their past. they may have experienced a lot together with their past lover/s, but that doesn't mean we can't let them experience new things, this time, with us.
2025-11-09 11:02:34
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_Blank_ :
Let them be , prioritize my feeling over time than her , cause reality I knew that i'm just filling in what her ex can't but still her ex wins
2025-09-19 18:26:33
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ael :
I made myself understand that it will not be the same as her first love. All those letters that I gave her will never match as the letter that her first love gave her. I will never match him, it will never be. I wholeheartedly accepted it, and will still continue to stay by her side—with the pain of realizing that I’m not her first.
2025-10-01 16:55:51
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ℒ :
Nah, I don’t believe that. Once he loves you, the past is the past. But if you meet this kind of person, clearly you’ve met a boy, not a man.
2025-10-11 14:37:05
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$ :
so.., there no chance at all to feel the love, like the love her ex feel? like the first time she was loving someone?
2025-10-06 02:39:03
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⋆*᧔࿔᧓˚。⋆ :
you cant compete with someone’s past because the past isnt just a person, its a collection of memories, moments, and versions of them that once felt like home. and trying to measure urself against that will only make you feel like you are standing in a place you were never meant to fill. i learned my lesson the hard way..
2026-02-23 15:44:38
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audreY :
THE TIMING IS CRAZY
2026-01-15 03:47:57
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natsu :
because despite the love, effort, and devotion you offer, you cannot erase what has been deeply ingrained in their heart before you arrived. it is a harsh truth that no matter how much we give, some hearts cannot be won over, and some memories cannot be rewritten.
2025-12-07 08:06:46
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Irxsh :
i get insecure sa past nya sometimes kasi pakiramdam ko nabigay nya yung best version nya sakanya like yeah i'm her present but sometimes di ko maiwasan ma i compare sarili ko bcs just want her to love me like its her first time again but her past turned her into an avoidant☹️
2025-11-08 20:13:57
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???? :
this hurts, i gave my heart fully to them — but i always end up being hurt, because their first love broke them rlly hard — and it's hard for them to let go of that, no matter how much i show up she doesn't see me.
2025-10-02 23:46:22
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fishaa ୨୧ :
Yaaa tapi tetep aja gak sih kak :] i’m scared that every little things i did unfortunately reminds him of her, kayak.. takut jadi bayang bayang aja wqwqwq XD
2025-11-01 23:12:29
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kinan :
wish aku bisa stop mikirin ini
2025-10-17 00:59:50
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pipel pleser :
aku udh lama sm dia, tpi dia masi sering keinget mantannya yang udah lama putus (lost contact juga), pernah dateng ke mimpinya juga dan kenangannya pun ktnya ke ulang ulang hehe :D
2025-10-25 12:56:36
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zym :
i cant love like that tho
2025-10-30 07:12:14
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lily :
he got his first love already and idk if I can compete, there's this constant thought that when she messaged him hw would leave me for her
2025-10-18 08:51:48
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fiey :
lalu fyp mesti ada sebab ni kann 🙁
2025-09-16 03:46:04
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A☃️ :
hold on, it hurts
2025-11-20 02:17:17
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️️ ️️️️ :
i choose to let go of the confusing, because I am not the least bit worthy of doubt, I am worthy of being loved clearly, wholeheartedly, and without hesitation.
2025-11-20 09:41:48
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🌷 :
sending hugs to all of u🫂🫂
2025-10-20 00:30:12
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Mcschotell🐈⬛˙✧*。 :
sedihnyo
2026-02-12 05:47:18
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