@healingwithemilyg: Hope is what keeps all of my clients stuck. It’s normal to believe that your partner can change, bc if you have empathy and some degree of emotional intelligence, YOU can change. But you need to remember that abusers don’t think the same way we do, and they don’t have that capacity. It has nothing to do with you. #narcissisticabuse #narctok #narcissisticabuserecovery #abuseawareness #abuserecovery
I realized that unless I apologized first, there would be no apology. That’s helping in my struggle to untangle myself from him.
2025-09-15 19:50:12
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Rach :
that was me, spent nearly 2 years thinking there was hope 💔
2025-09-15 14:38:46
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Tattooedm0mmy🖤 :
This is soo wild girl. This is exactly what I did I went through thinking the same exact thing ! Avoident ! I thought that bc it was like at this point I thought narc to but I was trying to understand him and thought yk what is that him but no I mean he does things similar to avoident for sure but the reason why he does the avoident shit is bc he’s a narc and it’s apart of his tactic . So wild man when I thought he was that I talked to him nice telling him I’m here when he is ready etc 😭😭😭
2025-09-16 10:20:06
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T ✨ :
Part of what makes it hard to wrap my head around this is that I don’t think or operate this way. It makes it difficult to fully understand they are not capable of learning, evolving and changing…they have no interest in changing for their partner and the person they supposedly love.
2025-09-16 12:58:05
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𝒜𝓁𝓁𝒾𝑒|ETHEREAL SKIN BAR♡ :
Why is this my life and what I just went through. Over a month free now and healing
2025-09-16 14:07:31
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Laura :
yessss. the avoidant attachment videos😮💨😮💨
2025-09-16 15:48:03
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423 :
Same 😢
2025-09-15 14:17:05
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audragart6 :
I’m addicted to the come back moments
2025-09-18 00:47:10
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🙏🏻CHRISTIAN VEE🙏🏻 :
Oof, this hits hard
2025-09-15 14:14:34
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Aubrey 🤠 :
I feel so stuck and I feel like I’m going crazy, like I actually start to think that maybe it’s just me, so I start trying to make it so that I don’t unpset him and I say things right and he still just gets so mad
2025-09-20 01:57:00
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audragart6 :
Ty
2025-09-18 00:46:23
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Trace💖 :
❤️❤️❤
2025-09-15 20:14:23
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Krissy 💞 :
💔💔💔
2025-09-18 12:45:22
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Nicki 🇮🇪 :
👏👏👏👏👏👏
2025-09-26 05:04:02
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SMARTFING Official :
Hello, Collab? Follow us
2025-09-15 22:51:58
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Adielush :
You see, I didn’t know what is narcissism (modern one) so I thought he was an avoidant and that’s why he discarded me. So after the discard I tried for 3 months to make him love me again. Only 2 weeks after the final break up and after ive been through hell, my friend asked what happened and read our texts, and she said “he sounds exactly like my ex, he was a narcissist” only then I started researching and realized who I was dealing with. But it was too late.
2025-09-15 14:19:09
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remyxgordon :
The watching vids about Avoidants&deciding that’s what’s wrong w him&he can be fixed instead of NPD is so real. I’ve been doing it for a year…
2025-11-23 08:54:02
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