Jessica Anatama
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n d a :
may this love smack me in the face,aamiin
2025-09-16 17:48:21
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bellzsterr ʚɞ :
girls who were used to love bombing, might find this kind of slow burn approach as ‘lack of interest’ or ‘push & pull’. but trust me, even the slowest flame can still make you feel the heat. you might be confused but not anxiously. i don’t rly know how to explain it but yes, if a man likes you, you WILL know 🩵
2025-09-17 03:03:20
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Cami :
it's not nonchalant , it's called secure
2025-09-17 03:10:39
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Echaaa :
AHHHH TOTALLY KAK. It feels calm, steady, safe and CONSISTENT
2025-09-16 23:58:26
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deyn :
this was the slowest burn I’ve had in my entire life. as someone who was used to that “rush love” type of thing, the slow burn situation was extremely hard bec I was too conditioned to the high intensity of emotions that I found the peace & calm to be disturbing & uncomfortable. when he came into my life, I knew he was different and I was right. he was secure and calm. he was never pushy and never rushed things with me. he never tried to brag or show-off to get my attention from the start. he was just there, and he kept on showing up for me. with him, I was able to teach myself patience and saw the importance of building friendship before romance. this is the calmest that my nervous system has ever been. no drama, no crying at midnight questioning my worth. the only relationship where I didn’t think abt competing w other women’s attention. the only relationship where I truly and constantly feel safe, seen, heard, and cared for ❤
2025-09-17 02:31:02
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Helena :
and guys, take note. A man who knows what and who he wants will make his intentions clear to you -- no push and pull, no mixed signals. Slow burn but consistent.
2025-09-19 04:43:55
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Aviᯓ ✈︎ :
Guys every relationship has different dynamics.Some goes fast, mid or slow. You don't have to compare. Just remember that pure intentions has clarity first and mutual understanding. AND ALSO SLOW DOESN'T MEAN YEARS TO REVEAL IF HE LIKES YOU OR NOT BY GETTING TO KNOW YOU.
2025-09-17 04:56:47
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na ✿☽ :
"the wrong one makes u fall first" 🫠
2025-09-16 23:41:57
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Nezzz :
I totally agree. Started off as friends. Just got to know each other. No love bombing. No flirty conversations. Just straight talk. About who we are as people. Where we came from. Things we like and dislike. There was attraction but no intention to pursue one another. He was my best friend first before becoming something more to me. We never tried to make each other fall at all. Was just each other’s safe space and it just happened, I guess. The feelings started to develop. A beautiful, peaceful, and intentional slow burn.
2025-09-18 04:19:49
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Jules 🌺 :
SLOW BURN = with INTENTIONS AND BUILDING CONNECTION. 👏👏
2025-09-19 01:03:25
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Riinn :
may this kind of love find me
2025-09-16 21:46:41
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Penny ✨ :
This is so true. I used to fall so fast because of lovebombing. When I met my partner, I confessed first and honestly thought he didn’t want me. But he told me he just wanted to take things slow, get to know me better, and not take advantage of my feelings just to rush into a relationship. Now we’ve been together for 3 years, and he’s the kindest, most gentle person I’ve ever known. I feel so lucky to have him.
2025-09-19 00:30:34
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honeybeyb88 :
Really? Really? I’m so confused right now coz he is exactly like that, but he is sooo consistent! Gosssh.. I’m starting to think that God wants a slow burn romance for us hehehe!
2025-09-21 12:53:53
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epicureanphilosophy :
Okay everyone, just wanna remind y’all that, this is NOT a standard, this is just one of many people’s experience. It’s not that significant so don’t make this a rule. I mean you don’t have to find a guy exactly like in this video, cause everybody has different ways to approach.
2025-09-20 10:01:33
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Lily :
This is exactly how love approache me
2025-09-16 22:11:19
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🫒 𓍼 𝘫𝘢𝘴𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘦 ⟢ 🍉 :
🥺🥺🥺🥺 ….. and they remembered small things bout you
2025-09-17 00:30:54
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ayam goreng rebus :
dulu tuh biasanya w suka dluan sama org sampe akhirnya jadian. tp yg skrg beda, dia yg suka w dluan. gabisa semudah itu buat suka sama org yg suka w dluan, and it turns out i liked him too setelah w kasih waktu ke dia selama 6 bulan buat mincut w hehehehe. secure bgt rasanya sama yg skrg, krn di hub terakhir w tu toxic bgt ampe seringkali susah bgt tidur dan selalu insecure anxiety overthinking dll :") hufftt doain guysss semoga sampe nikah sama yg skrg hehehehe😁
2025-09-16 22:37:05
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pink lover :
gaada dramaa, ga ribet, ga perna bt, semua emosi kita di validasii🥹🥹🥹 ga yang 24/7 tapiii gatau kenapaa ttp nyaman dan ttp ngerasa adaa padahall beda negara😭💔🫶🏻
2025-09-16 23:27:39
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meii :
ternyata dia tipe secure man ya :( baru sadar huhu, tp yg kaka omongin bener, awal² aku ngerasanya malah dia mau atau ga sm akuu
2025-09-17 00:43:01
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kailaaaa ☘️ :
manifest i will soon find someone like this 💓
2025-09-16 23:23:31
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yourhighnesshenry :
The thing is “keep showing up” if they want they will.. it’s a bare minimum of an effort
2025-09-17 09:22:22
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✧•Nemo•✧ :
my bf is exactly like this, never knew from this perspective, I thought he was just not interested at first but he kept talking to me without flirty talk or jokes for months, the CONSISTENCY, it was slow but comfortable. we're in relationship for a year now. He was my friend for the longest time, now he's my lover forever[happy]
2025-10-19 17:29:25
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Reenè 𓍯 :
future husband, you see this?
2025-09-16 23:21:14
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minjiyoong :
THIS. The kind of relationship ive been looking for. No forced conversations. No pressure to rush into the next stage. Just two people getting to know each other and going with the flow.
2025-10-14 08:45:06
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withlovepita :
huhuhu iya, walapun awalnya dibikin kayak "lo suka gue nggak sih sebenernya?"
2025-09-16 22:52:42
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