@drewwdaniels: Why Avoidant Partners will endlessly punish you for one mistake… #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyles #relationshiphealing

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meldawn1111
meldawn1111 :
What’s worse though is when they’re upset because they’re choosing to misinterpret what you’re saying on purpose to avoid what they did that bothered you.
2025-09-17 22:22:49
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mowaquie
mowaquie :
ugh i’m realizing it’s such a toxic cycle (i’m anxious, my bf is avoidant) but if he was to have a mature response like that i would be more than happy to understand & work through the hurt we caused each other but he continues to punish me or pull away completely.
2025-09-16 21:58:55
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hey_doggo
Hey_Doggo :
Avoidant is simply a nicer way of saying abusive
2025-09-22 06:04:57
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jodyannrn
Itiswhatitis🐢 :
omg yes!!! and I take accountability and apologize for this one mistake and it is still brought up every time. But his many lies those are never owned up to
2025-09-27 19:11:21
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gaillazar26
gaillazar26 :
My ex hide a dinner with a woman. When I found the receipt on my seat in the car, I was eventually told. I need time. You’re saying I don’t make you feel safe. I said you lied to me that night. He said yes I lied but you wouldn’t understand and he was about to give up the holiday together bc he needed time bc I was “attacking” who he is. Eventually got ghosted with no explanation 2 weeks later after 3.5 years today without telling me he was leaving. 🤷🏼‍♀
2025-09-18 22:31:18
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vivalawham
Pixieamazon :
Avoidants just need to stay out of the dating pool
2025-09-22 06:44:17
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jesanderly
Jesanderly :
youre describing him to a T. wow
2025-12-16 02:07:04
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chickennoodlessz1
🐔 :
sometimes I think we're part of the problem for trying to date or being in a relationship with them 🙃
2025-11-15 17:49:52
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redmoonf2
redmoonf :
Your eyes and hair are mystical I like them!
2025-09-17 01:02:46
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thatgrlnancy
Thatgrlnancy :
I literally asked him if he wanted me to buy him sweatpants so he could be more comfortable and he never wore them and he never stopped bringing that up!!!
2025-10-06 12:16:44
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foundmywings20
MamaB :
i’m secure now and i will tell you it’s still hard to love with an avoident…but man do you describe it so perfectly
2025-09-17 00:54:36
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ttalia33268
Thalia :
Omg thank you for talking about this I was about to lose my damn mind
2025-09-17 18:51:47
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mscrystalkay
mscrystalkay :
Yes! This happened today! I have accountability and even apologize yet he justifies his behavior as if it was ok! No apology or accountability.
2025-09-18 21:39:17
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tiffanyaingle
Tiffany✨Digital Income Mentor :
This explains so much about the dynamic between him and me 🥺
2025-09-17 02:38:20
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themellapot
Mella Pro :
It doesn’t make it ok
2025-09-18 15:45:33
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roaring.love
Jess :
This literally makes no sense to me. Can someone please explain 🙃
2025-09-18 02:31:18
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alx.row
alex 🌙 :
wow. 🥺
2025-09-16 21:54:42
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_gore_jess
Jay_🧿🖤 :
Accurate
2025-09-18 19:05:05
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user10maka
Maka Buhle :
how many times I forgive Him but he can't in Me,it's stressing...
2026-07-08 06:23:20
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hotrodwelding
🔥 HotRod 🔥 :
oh man that's what it is
2025-10-08 00:50:09
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jackieofalltradez1
Jackieofalltrades :
This is the problem. They want us to ALWAYS empathize with them but they cannot empathize with us. ESPECIALLY when it’s their behavior that it’s hurtful time and time again. It’s honestly insane.
2025-12-11 05:08:08
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nothing2seeheer
Donk Blankenstein :
Sooooooo they’re manipulative hypocrites. Got it.
2025-11-04 05:29:33
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stephanielaterza
Author Stephanie Laterza :
So the avoidant wants you to suffer/feel shame because at some point, you allegedly did that to them (by rightfully holding them accountable)? 🤔
2025-09-21 21:45:04
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dolce_daze
Dolce Daze :
❤❤❤
2025-10-09 14:07:40
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