Cole and Charisma
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Wednesday 17 September 2025 17:57:34 GMT
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Jennyk :
Check out the Patrice: the movie! It’s about this exact issue.
2025-09-18 21:18:05
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LaCourtney :
wow...he doesn't suddenly gain abilities by getting married, there's no reason to lose clearly necessary medical benefits...this country 😒
2025-09-17 19:29:53
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we_r_healing :
Unfortunately this is real. I've seen multiple elderly couples divorce just so the spouse didn't lose life saving benefits from medicaid. It's horrible.
2025-09-18 01:59:03
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Christina :
This is mad. In the UK disability is given whether the person is single or married and the payments are the same if married or not. Disability is not decided on earnings her it's for the disabled person to use for anything they need related to their disability. Can't believe he had to give up his xx
2025-09-17 18:53:40
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Jenna.Tailia🦫🪵 :
I totally understand why a marriage certificate is so important to some, BUT.. is it legal to have a ceremony, reception and all that but NOT sign the marriage certificate and just change your last name to his? I know it's not exactly the same, but at least he could keep his benefits. Btw as a Canadian, I'm just finding out about this, and it blows my mind. Like, what if it's a secret ceremony that the government doesn't need to know about? There's got to be loopholes. It's really unfair.
2025-09-17 20:24:33
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Danielle Roberts905 :
I just don’t understand how this makes sense to anyone. His benefits are there for medical needs and to supplement for work he might not be able to do. Marrying someone doesn’t magically make those needs go away. Honestly even if the abled person was well off financially and could afford it why is it fair for the expenses to be all on them now? Couples where no is in this situation get to combine their wealth. I’ve never seen getting this help as milking the system. Some can’t just go to work to make money and work for companies to have insurance. This is in place of that so should be considered their income to combine with their partner.
2025-09-18 01:54:58
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Allyson Anderson :
why did he have to give up his benefits?
2025-09-17 18:03:22
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neenah_856 :
This country is a…nvm Congratulations 💙💖💚💛💜💚💖💙💖💚💛💜💙💖
2025-09-17 22:00:55
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Jess (Taylor’s Version) :
Congrats!! My husband and I currently in the same situation with me being disabled. Maybe someday we can legally get married without the fear of the financial repercussions from medical expenses.
2025-09-17 22:26:31
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Donna Collins9680 :
wow! I love you guys! I had no idea he had to give up his benefits to get married. That's insane!
2025-09-17 18:08:33
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Austin Hanner :
I can definitely relate! I am in a power wheelchair and married and had to get rid of all my benefits and pay privately for my home healthcare and wheelchair expenses. All because we both are working and exceed the assets and salary requirements for the Iowa MEPD program. The State of Iowa currently has legislation to change the requirements for the program, so cross our fingers this legislation passes!
2025-09-17 18:40:15
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Krisco :
We are one of the only developed nations in the world without universal healthcare. That’s the real problem. Healthcare comes with financially crippling costs. That’s just healthcare, but taking time off work to seek healthcare costs a family lost wages. It won’t change till these are fixed.
2025-09-18 01:18:35
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Sadie :
Congratulation. I worked as nurse and many of my patient had to divorce to get benefits. It’s awful that you can’t receive benefits being married.
2025-09-19 22:29:27
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Ask Away :
Never knew this. This is so horrible. Congrats on you union 🥺
2025-09-18 11:35:00
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Victoria Serenity :
Congrats Cole & Charisma! ❤ This country is horrible when it comes to any type of disability benefits. SSI doesn't want you to have more than $2000.00 in assets and for a couple no more than $3000.00 in assets.
2025-09-18 23:06:09
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Meshabeloved :
This is so beautiful and so horrible at the same time. Like how can they do such a terrible thing like that? It’s so sad but yall are so beautiful and I just love watching your content so much
2025-09-17 18:25:09
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stitchesy2k :
Congratulations may you have a life time of happiness
2025-09-19 01:36:46
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Cynthia Bethea :
Happy Anniversary 🥂 to such a beautiful couple 🎉🥳
2025-09-18 08:45:12
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LifePast40 :
This was so informative 😱I had no idea! Blessings Cole and Charisma!
2025-09-18 00:14:21
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♦️SnarkyAce♦️ :
I’m so happy for you two! Unfortunately this is why my brother and sister in law can’t get married. We need marriage equality for all!
2025-09-18 01:58:21
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karinlinder545 :
This just made me cry. In this crazy world this true love is beautiful. Happy Anniversary !🥰
2025-09-17 21:05:20
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AuntieEm 🇨🇦 :
If I had a dollar for every medical professional and social worker who told me to divorce my husband so we could actually afford to live, I could bring him home. Instead, I work 3 jobs and have to forgo retirement savings because that would make him ineligible for funding for his LTC home. But for richer or poorer. He is my world.
2025-09-18 06:16:18
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Briar Rose :
wait......why would he lose medical benefits by getting married
2025-09-18 15:16:02
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sheila mcginnis :
You two are a fantastic example of “for richer or poorer, in sickness and health “ you both are absolutely amazing! I pray many more anniversaries and celebrations!
2025-09-18 22:21:25
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gosaunders71 :
Why’d he have to give up benefits so you could get married?
2025-09-18 22:31:41
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