Allie Voss
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milwaukeeMike :
#5 selflessness. a successful marriage requires you to often do things for your spouse that you don't feel like doing. if you're selfless, you do it happily
2025-09-18 00:14:28
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Chase :
Grief might take decades to happen tho
2025-09-17 23:52:44
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Anonymous703🇸🇴 :
take a trip and you'll all of those emotions 😂😂
2025-09-18 12:29:13
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FestiveMe :
As a therapist, I agree with this.
2025-09-19 01:02:35
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T O T E K I :
Go travel to a new country for both of you. And you will experience all these
2025-09-18 12:42:09
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dionallanoid :
Now listen, just because you haven't seen those emotions, doesn't mean you have to force them to come out. You hear me, ladies?
2025-09-19 06:47:05
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redruM :
I genuinely cannot image being enraged around my girlfriend
2025-09-18 00:20:28
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Bonnie⸆⸉🍀 :
”How do you feel about marriage” ”erm your mom has to die first, have to see you grieve”
2025-09-22 22:22:50
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wilson the squid :
um idk if IVE had all four of these emotions in the last few years
2025-09-17 22:03:27
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Will :
This is brilliant advice. Unfortunately, dating apps have conditioned us to treat people like entries in an Excel spreadsheet, turning them into shopping lists of qualities we think would make a good spouse. In reality, the true character of an individual matters far more in any type of relationship.
2025-09-17 20:52:58
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Biomewanderer :
I think your grandma has the right idea
2025-09-18 01:12:03
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Dogimedkrad :
Anger is a hard one. You say not annoyance but genuine anger. someone controlling their anger might seem not upset, so you have to wait until they lose it? Where is the limit? Mind you I generally agree, seeing how they handle inconvienence and lack of control is important.
2025-09-18 00:33:15
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ɔɐʞ 𖦹 :
“People who get engaged after a week or two are probably jumping the gun a bit” 😳😳😳😳😳 YEA ID SAY SO
2025-09-19 12:16:50
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3kids.and.me :
Someone please book this lady for a podcast for young people!!!
2025-09-19 12:34:12
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Sunsetshaman :
i agree with this, but i given today's world i would add Panic/anxiety, how they react to social tragedy (i.e. school shootings), what social issues tjey are passionate aboit and political/moral/religious leanings and bias, how the argue and end arguments, and lastly how they resolve disagreements
2025-09-18 13:21:02
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Despairishere :
this is very important! my parents divorced because they handle grief in wildly different ways causing extreme stress in the relationship, they're sitll very good friends but they did not work well together
2025-09-18 05:09:08
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thatonegirl :
Jealousy should be one see how they act when they’re jealous because if they’re jealous and put you down with them, they’re not for you they should lift you up even though they have slight jealousy
2025-09-18 18:32:50
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briespanol :
Honestly this is a great take
2025-09-18 22:28:04
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K :
all of these PLUS (if you both drink socially) see how they act after a few drinks. if they get belligerent to any degree run
2025-09-19 02:59:25
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O.Vaughn A. B :
I always say this; speaks to the elders about relationships and marriage cause they know whats the real deal about it. These nowadays "guru" dont have the slightest clue what marriage life will entail for it to go the long run. Your grandma knows whats up!!💯
2025-09-18 16:41:14
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Comfy socks only :
It will take a looooong time
2025-09-19 05:19:25
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PJ :
Grandma gave you sound advice.
2025-09-18 16:00:21
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Choux 🌸 :
😂🤣 I wouldn't be a wifey material then
2025-09-19 13:36:49
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SAT Prep Tutor Daniel! :
Saving this!
2025-09-17 23:27:11
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wa.wala :
It might take a really long time to see all of these??
2025-09-17 22:27:54
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