@thechrishinton: We don’t listen to connect, we listen to defend. That’s why your kids shut down, your partner checks out, and no one feels safe around you. This isn’t about blame, it’s about waking up. It’s time to stop listening with your triggers, and start listening with your ears. Drop a comment if this called you out, or woke something up. thechrishinton.com for the real book, and one on one coaching. #emotionalintelligence #innerhealing #personalgrowth #observermindset #communicationmatters

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jenniebdot
Jenn Williams :
"listen with your ears, not your triggers" is my new favorite saying. I repeat it to myself DAILY!
2025-09-18 19:41:49
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reina12391
♾️ REINA ♾️ :
This is so true…I am the first to admit I’ve done this and still do it.. Wow
2025-09-17 22:41:13
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eagle1742
9Stars :
Yes, they listen to respond, not to understand
2025-09-17 23:09:57
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christy_the_trauma_queen
Christy_the_trauma_queen :
Have you made shirts that say “listen with your ears, not your triggers” cause I need one
2025-09-19 23:22:57
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thugable0317
Sheree :
Listening with triggers for me causes me to be defensive. I also have a face that speaks before my mouth does... Not sure how to fix that one lol
2025-09-18 14:03:12
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amyholliday1
Amy Holliday :
Will you be coming to South Carolina or North Carolina?
2025-09-18 16:10:03
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snowiirose
Snowii :
I've been so focused on the fact that people don't listen to me that I forgot I also need to listen to them.
2025-09-28 11:15:23
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lyric.lily
Lyric.Lily :
People that listen with their triggers pin point out words from a single sentence and respond immediately to what they “think they heard, not what was actually said. Listen to respond, not understand.
2025-09-18 14:53:29
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donald_claus
Donald Claus :
Well articulated 🕊
2025-09-18 05:46:09
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curlfriendchel
Chelsy L :
"Trauma explains behavior, it doesn't excuse it forever"
2025-09-19 03:41:36
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thameag
ThaMeag :
Ohhh…I’m on the right side of TikTok now.
2025-09-17 23:07:30
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nanseaann
NanseaAnn :
The less you say, the more people will listen when you DO speak!
2025-09-18 03:52:35
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sissy411
Sissy :
Thank you❤
2025-09-18 01:55:12
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greggy6867
Greggy ❌ :
Guilty! I’m quick to respond and Not to listen and then Not hear ! Thanks. God Bless U!
2025-09-18 17:43:27
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kaiden_ragsdale
kaiden_ragsdale :
instantaneous reaction is a killer of vulnerability and wanting to be heard often related to triggers
2025-09-25 23:57:05
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saraliz1111
Sarali :
Spot on
2025-09-18 17:20:17
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kayceecutts
Kaycee Cutts :
Needed this today
2025-09-17 23:20:54
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nildyestevez
Nildy 💋ll Beauty Heals ll :
My father is 61 years old. He had a very rough upbringing and I’ve justified his behavior for 20 years. I had to learn to be loud in order to be heard. After many years of therapy I finally understood that I wasn’t going to be heard by him. He listens with his triggers. Only listens to defend himself.
2025-09-18 17:57:51
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relax_luv_this_is_us
Sis :
Can we get some merch with listen with your ears not you triggers!!! 🥰🥰🥰
2025-09-19 01:27:40
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veronicachico86
Sandstone Health :
I love your teachings ! I super want to recommend you to others
2025-09-18 10:51:43
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ctasha94
Connie Bennett :
Do you plan on coming to Florida? Hopefully, & close to me. 🙏🏻
2025-09-18 03:40:14
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user5546571056181jamick
Dottie :
Your insight and understanding of human behavior is just impeccable. It is so enlightening and helpful. I’ve learned so much through all your videos already. Thank you🙏💕
2025-09-18 07:34:11
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cynzin07
CynZin :
Triggers such as reloading and interrupting friends and family…I’ve been guilty and still trying to catch myself and actively listen 🤭
2025-09-18 03:17:27
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misy.george
Misy George :
I'm learning how to listen now that I'm 43. never was caught.
2025-09-18 14:01:29
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patty.smith126
Patty Smith :
I’m guilty ☹
2025-09-18 00:47:30
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