@thegentleindifference: i just know the comments im gonna get on this one. enjoy, just something ive been thinking about lately. #philosophy #thoughts #idk #imgonnagetmadefunofbutohwell

serlicious :

In a world that looks before it listens, a woman’s mind is too often asked to wait behind her appearance.

cato :

START A PODCAST. PLEASE.

? :

No literally I’ve always been quiet and introverted, weird and awkward and I’ve always been this way yet it’s like the second I got hot I’m mysterious and cool now I’m a “good kind of weird” which is just a way to admit I’m funny. I majored in media production and sociology did a lot of journalism and photography. People love that, are always super impressive with what I’m doing but if I was ugly I’d be labeled as a weirdo with a camera and I probably wouldn’t be able to pursue journalism bc no one gives women they deem unattractive time

zmbieorgans :

“What ever you say beautiful” or “blah blah blah proper name place name..” or “off topic but you’re beautiful” not saying we can’t joke here and there but sometimes there’s a time and a place 😭

miss alana femme ⭐️ :

ur hair is soooo good

Dirtylittlebrush :

You are so intelligent and well articulated. Thank you for speaking on this topic

Swaeeluke :

I think you won when you chose yourself since the beginning. Choosing that authenticity no matter the feedback you received. I always feared taking on subjects like poetry or being perceived as an artist or nerdy simply because of the pressure that position seemed to entail. I never even stepped into it bc of how I thought I would be received. You embodied it and I hope you’re proud. We have pushed the feminine and masculine far out of balance, but I think it’s minds like yours and conversations like this that will bring the balance back!

DeAndre Mitchell :

It works both ways just differently trust me. A study needs to be done about kids like us that we’re actually ahead of the curve and got ostracized for it. Now we’re like “the cool ones” and we feel weird cause WE NEVER CHANGED 🥺😭 maybe physically but cmon 🥲

itsyozee 💎 :

Ngl you look like a disney fairy

ghost304s :

It’s for sure a lot more common for women. But I’ve experienced a lot of what you experienced as a man. The fact that at 22 I’m still growing into my appereance and getting a bit more attention is still foreign to me, when in school I was always called ugly and weird, and now the things I do aren’t “weird”.

alice ⭐️ :

yeah i relate to this. i’m eighteen now, not that i’ve gotten prettier or anything like that but it’s true that a whole category of things that i used to be passionate about when i was younger and that i still love now are now perceived differently and that reflects on me as a person and as a young woman. i was a weird kid obsessed with books, writing and “nerdy” stuff, and when i was younger that made me “weird” and somehow alienated from other people my age. now that everything has become a race to media consumption and girls who read and write fit into that fetishized aspect of society, all of the sudden that’s cool and admirable. idk if it makes sense but your video resonated with me!

proteiniprincess :

Can I add that when ur younger it’s “ur so weird” and NOW it’s “ur so funny!” like hm okay lol

maliacoli :

You kinda look like Kylie jenner

brooklyn? :

thank you for vocalizing your thoughts in the way you do. expressed what i have felt internally for my entire life.

snowangel_iyadoll :

story of my life. i totally understand. it’s mind boggling smh. ur so tea btw i love your style

KAYLA :

“I’ve been every age before that” im dead as fuuuuug 😂😂😂

miyuhh :

kylie jenner??

rivae💌🦢 :

'you're either not looked at or you're looked at too hard' preach.

#1 :

Tall and skinny….to CHUBBY and tall…then being masculinized….the only thing I was ever good for was my brain 💀

amadea.piekos :

Second of all people that peaked in high school rn are nowhere close to being cool or successful…(i experienced really similar things while in school)

madeline.elisee :

omg ur back hello

suzhoohoo :

you are only 20, props for figuring this out early! I was tall, skinny, a know it all and book nerd. Found out I had ADHD in my 40s and it explains a lot. I wouldn't change a thing because being a "late bloomer" gives you perspective and character and helps you be kinder to quirky folks and children as you age 💞

AJ :

so sorry u went through that, I saw my elementary school bully like 2-3 years ago at my local grocery store for the first time since elementary school and she gave me the nastiest look ever… like gng r we adults?? like I can remember too if u want, the audacity! 😭

✵.｡𝓃è𝓂𝑒𝓀𝓀𝑜 :

yep the veil of shame is so true. for being someone you’ve always been. shame when you’re younger because no one likes you. and shame when you’re older because now they like you but sometimes for the wrong reasons

kp20033 :