@justmevirginia: She wants to feel like you’re equal not like she has to manage your butt. These are life skills, regular adulting tasks, she shouldn’t have to tell you do them EVERY DAY. You should just proactively do it. Like she does. #chores #equalpartnership #marriage #men #women
Eventually I told my husband "Pretend I'm not here, like I died and I'm gone. What would you do? Do that."
2025-09-19 14:57:12
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spider_spiral :
IM NOT YOUR MOMMY!!!!!
2025-09-19 15:46:04
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user2326436233973 :
Do all these men show up to work and just sit there until someone asks them for help?
2025-09-29 22:53:18
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Erin— Gen ❌ mom :
They don’t see it, because they don’t see it as their job.
2025-09-19 13:28:29
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erin :
Who makes a list for us? Hmmmm…
2025-09-19 15:08:50
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Emma :
Do these men need to ask their bosses everyday what needs to get done? Do these men need to ask themselves what needs to get done everyday when they live alone?
2025-09-19 14:33:40
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Taylor🆘🇺🇸 :
My husband can look at 10 different job sites and divvy them up between 30-45 other men but can’t tell when the trash needs be taken out.
2025-09-22 07:58:52
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nunya :
“Open your eyes and pretend that you live here, you should be able to figure out what needs to be done.”
2025-09-20 20:10:32
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Jen, LVT :
Sent this to my husband🤪
2025-09-22 16:00:42
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booksandtea15 :
btw ADHD is not an excuse. As a woman with both ADHD and Autism. It's not that hard. They just don't wanna care.
2025-10-05 11:57:14
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catlover999 :
My Spouse says "you want everything done right now, this minute" and I say no, I just want some help anytime without asking .... it never happens as he sits in front of the TV 6 hours a day.
2025-09-20 04:42:37
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jessashfair :
NO ONE IS TELLING ME WHAT TO DO
2025-09-30 12:48:38
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gilmoregirl91 :
His FYP not mine please and thank you.
2025-09-29 14:38:50
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Britteny Kalicky :
“The divorce came out of nowhere “
2025-09-30 04:35:52
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becca :
nobody tells us what needs to be done we just DO IT
2025-09-25 02:11:28
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Bearcharger :
Then don't treat me like everything I'm doing is wrong.
2025-10-14 06:20:27
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Alicia 🩷 :
✨ weaponized incompetence ✨
2025-10-05 07:59:45
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Chloe ♥️ :
Having to tell a grown adult what to do is so draining
2025-10-15 13:21:57
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🎀 e g a n :
“BuT I goT AdhD”🙄
2025-09-26 00:22:54
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Dawn Lehto :
and dont do them half assed... like yea you may do the laundry but you leave all my clothes for me to put away.... and I always put all your clothes away...
2025-11-19 05:49:13
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Caitlin Briner :
" what can I do to help" idk. any of the things I do every day. we shouldn't have to ask or tell them. we are partners!
2025-09-30 05:11:06
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Jayne ✝️ | Homeschool Mom :
What I have never understood is they go to work and dont need someone to tell them what to do every moment but at home they need constant direction?
2025-09-26 18:51:09
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Lindsey Branner :
I made it 13 years of doing that. I stopped asking and divorced him. I was doing everything by myself so what did I need him for exactly?
2025-09-19 13:56:39
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_Crazycatlady5_ :
When I have to tell him what to do when it’s flipping obvious I’ll just do it myself and be mad at him in the end 🤷♀
2025-09-19 02:32:34
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ju.lucky_ :
If I tell him this he says I’m just a feminist and videos on tik tok influence me. I’m like “tik toks are there because other females are thinking the SAME THINKGS”
2025-09-30 20:12:25
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