@kimgdavie: No one can prepare you for this…#agingparents #caretaker #aging #caregiver #parents

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coolmom580
user4862533738473 :
Don’t think if you had siblings it would help! Most of us are doing this alone with siblings! It is a extremely difficult season of life! 🙏🥺
2025-09-19 05:49:58
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stacyswanson0
stacy2468 :
Ohhh I feel this to my core. I have 3 kids and a piece of me is just relieved they will have each other to lean on (hopefully)...bc doing it as an only child is HARD
2025-09-19 01:15:25
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mytimeforcoffee
MyTimeForCoffee :
I went through the same but with siblings who did nothing. I was basically an only child.
2025-09-19 01:22:25
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kthamil10
Katy :
If you have a Facebook, look up “Parenting Aging Parents.” It’s a group that has been so helpful with questions or even just to vent.
2025-09-19 13:21:26
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dratwar
dratwar :
It is harder than taking care of kids.
2025-09-19 17:02:37
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backchannelnan
Nan 🌎 🇺🇸 💙 :
Quick reality check: it’s also common for only one ‘child’ to step up while the other siblings find every excuse to ghost the whole situation. It’s rough duty. Help is there, but it takes some searching to find them.
2025-09-20 00:39:44
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gelatoqueen2
gelatoqueen2 :
Care giver fatigue is so real & my heart goes out to you. It’s so emotional & just plain hard. I don’t know what level they are at, but I’m an RN Case manager for a skilled facility. Some areas have resources that might be helpful. Feel free to reach out anytime. All my love to you. Bless you for the care you’re giving them.
2025-09-19 01:26:10
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sandwichgenerationmom
Sandwich Generation Mom ❌ :
Only child here too. And mom and I have not had the best relationship for the past 15 years so I feel both sad and angry that I have to deal with it all. Big hugs.
2025-10-13 15:45:16
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kimberlyrbarnett
Kim Barnett :
I’m not an only child but dealing with it on my own .
2025-09-19 18:38:53
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sue.watley.parker
Sue Watley Parker :
I’m not going to let my only child daughter hear this. She’ll be terrified.
2025-09-19 21:13:04
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that_girl_2014
It's me, hi! :
As a mom who only has 1 child, what is something your parents could've done to make this easier for you? I'm not asking as a way to criticize your parents, I'm asking this as a parent who hopes to make things as easy on her as possible later in life. She's only 6 right now.
2025-09-19 02:22:37
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maryemakamson
Mary Elizabeth :
Nobody prepares you for losing both of them either.
2025-09-19 11:49:35
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jrbranham
jbranham :
I understand completely. I was the caregiver for my mom for 3 years. It is heartbreaking. Take care of yourself. Sending hugs.
2025-09-19 16:23:55
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judyhenderson5
Judy Henderson :
Sending you prayers as this is the most difficult time in your life. I did this two years ago, and now my parents are in heaven . ❤️‍🩹
2025-09-19 04:32:22
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twall115
user5348932163226 :
I’m sorry. It is so hard. I cared for my mom until she passed and she fought dementia for a long time. It’s so hard as they get older to watch them age.
2025-09-20 03:58:39
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123sum_
Nicole :
My mom is 1 hour 40 mins away and I am there taking care of her and her home each week at least once , maybe twice and she needs more. 2 siblings within 15 minutes. Nothing…
2025-09-19 17:29:24
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littleliza20
LilLiza :
Yes❣️You’re not alone. I have 2 older siblings who do nothing…with a huge age gap between them and me. It’s exhausting on multiple levels. Hugs. You’re not alone.
2025-09-19 02:21:46
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beanaps
Beatrice Inneo-Napatano :
Only child and its so hard
2025-09-19 13:10:35
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kurlymom
Capsfan :
In my career, I help families who are doing this every day. If it’s one child or 12 children, it doesn’t seem to make a difference. In your case, you do not need anyone’s approval for any decision that you have to make. You don’t have to fight amongst siblings to reach your conclusion. Try to take some solace in that.
2025-09-19 01:30:55
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loonlady18
TheLoonLady :
Girl - same boat. I’m five years in. Heartbroken and exhausted. Sending love.
2025-09-19 11:57:55
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irish89871
Irish89 :
Done that with a high conflict sibling. iIt was hell.
2025-09-19 04:27:24
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katdal0521
KTdalton :
Completely understand. Only child here is well with aging parents
2025-09-19 18:19:33
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bravolover2024
Bravolover2024 :
As a child that’s had a mother sick since I was a freshman in high school I so understand this
2025-09-19 01:58:05
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ms.susiecue
Susie Q :
We are parents of an only child. This broke me. 😭 Sending strength, peace and love to you and your family! 🫶🏼
2025-09-19 02:16:44
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