Basically prioritizing your own life outside of your partner
2025-09-20 17:24:17
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marilynn :
you better than me
2025-09-20 02:20:51
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1113 :
i need to practice this, i go crazy if i don’t have a text back omg
2025-09-21 02:59:36
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nyluvsnova :
This is only if the relationship is in a comfortable aspect. If the person is constantly doing things that makes you question, or makes you anxious, or isn’t reciprocating the energy that they should, manipulative…it could put you in survival mode which leads to anxious attachments. So whoever is reading this don’t blame yourself if you are unable to be what is described in the post because it’s most likely your relationship not allowing you to do so mentally.
2025-09-20 17:13:51
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Jean Mean :
I needed this right now!
2025-09-20 21:31:26
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Hayma :
This is so important. Too many times we lose ourself in relationships.
2025-09-22 03:41:44
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esse :
If you’re detached you’re not in a healthy relationship
2025-09-20 02:20:57
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K.e.v.ii :
It’s very very important to show yourself just as much love that you would in a relationship.
2025-09-21 01:31:42
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☆ Jam ☆ :
is it about them, or is it an old wound… 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
2025-09-20 23:41:33
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🎀 𝓁𝒾𝓋𝓋𝓎 🎀 :
How do I start? I have BPD, he’s become my entire life and I spend every single day crying until I can see him, I’m exhausted.
2025-09-23 01:45:46
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uzzie :
literally, sometimes i feel guilty because i don’t pursue him as much as i know i can, but i learned from my last relationships how to carry on. doesn’t mean i like or care about him any less, i’m just protecting my mental. i want to be with him more than anything nonetheless.
2025-09-22 06:40:12
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Cash out yesterday :
needed this really bad I’m so attached to this man I go through a depression phase when we be beefing 💔
2025-09-23 16:46:04
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Bri :
As a chronic over thinker, I needed this 💯
2025-09-21 21:06:48
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Just Abe 👍🏽 :
Or just put god first
2025-09-23 14:16:26
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⭐️ :
This really sounds easier than it really is and I hate that
2025-09-23 08:00:24
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J.B🎀 :
never looked at it this way.
2025-09-21 13:08:32
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tutu :
this is actually a way i need to start moving , too relatable
2025-09-21 05:00:49
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🤍 :
6) I put God first
2025-09-23 11:52:16
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️deb-o-rah :
this! my partner is not my whole world, hes an addition to it. i have to cater to the other parts of my life just as i do him. as long as communication and comprehension is evident + we make time for each other all is well.
2025-09-21 21:41:36
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August :
This is solid advice
2025-09-22 01:14:51
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_dazewdij :
People don’t realize that they’re losing their self identity when they DON’T do these things. Relationships have become so controlling, suffocating & possessive. Your whole world is not supposed to revolve around your partner, you NEED a life outside of them.
2025-09-26 01:09:27
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aniya 𓅓 :
i need more hobbies fr i have a life outside of him but i need to occupy my time more
2025-09-22 03:50:33
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Jean Mean :
The ones that get it get it
2025-09-20 21:31:45
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marina :
“or is this an old wound” wow, i always knew that i would have subtle triggers remind me of being hurt but i never looked at it that wat
2025-09-22 18:25:15
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🌱 :
wait this was so helpful thank you
2025-09-21 20:31:40
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