Everyone gets the same version of me until you show me that you don’t deserve it and I close off.
2025-09-20 18:28:06
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grow with ashley :
yes, but also, there are only so many hours in the day. I am a safe person to everyone, but I cannot be everyone's best friend. I feel bad that I can't be everything to everyone, but I simply don't have the time to commit as much time to strangers and acquaintances I do those in my inner circle.
2025-09-29 11:37:14
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Kelly | Nervous System Mentor :
Everyone deserves the best version of you, but not everyone deserves your time.
2025-09-20 18:03:04
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Mayra Alejandra :
AGEEED!
2025-09-21 23:47:41
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luna.almasri :
I used to live by this philosophy but to be honest i’ve come to learn that you’re going to become like the people you surround yourself and interact with- so i think it’s smart to be discerning and only show your best to those who have similar values as you and those who you see a future with. I also think you have one “pie” of energy/time so you can choose to have several friendships/relationships that will each get a smaller piece of the pie, or you can focus on a handful of relationships that will each get a bigger piece- you can get deeper, more vulnerable, and more real with. There is a such thing as spreading your energy thin and I think it’s cool to choose to gather it for those who you pick and choose for your life and give them the greatest, sharpest version of you. Just my thoughts 🤷🏻♀
2025-09-20 18:40:43
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✨Julie’s Spiritual Corner✨ :
We aren’t living authentically if we are gatekeeping parts of ourselves. If our own cups are full, it doesn’t matter if people don’t appreciate the softer parts of us, because we don’t “need” that from them. Because we are enough for ourselves already. This is great awareness.
2025-09-20 14:30:19
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Steven Yang 杨 阳 | Finance :
My energy and time is the most valuable assets. Why would I give it away for free?
2025-09-21 00:34:55
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Erynn51 :
I'm authentically and unapologetically myself... which is guarded in general lol.
2025-09-20 19:58:33
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Stacey :
Wisdom
2025-09-22 01:14:44
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Astro💫Heaux🫦 :
actually as an introvert, I do get exhausted and drained by too many people/much socializing.
2025-09-20 20:54:21
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MagicMike :
Thank you for that positive comment
2025-09-20 18:09:14
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McKenzie Claire :
I love this take ♥️Selfishly gate keeping your spirit vs. guarding your heart is two different things. It’s on your character to have enough of a relationship with the Lord to know the difference.
2025-09-20 17:19:33
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gianna contreras :
Because of the increase of wickedness, the love of most will grow cold
Matthew 24 : 12
2025-09-20 16:45:41
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lailalulukitty :
Woah this is crazy
2025-09-20 14:38:18
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Samantha :
I love this… thank you 🔥❤
2025-09-20 16:52:59
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Tiffany_ElitePersonalTraining✨ :
The world NEEDS the best version of us 🤍 love this reframe - they CANNOT take something from me that I’m not giving freely. Best video I’ve watched today, thank you!
2025-09-20 19:54:49
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Nevermoon Industries :
Lmao it’s not about making people earn your love, it’s about being wary of becoming deeply entangled too quickly with people who are actually incompatible or misaligned with your values, goals, communication styles, etc. I’m authentic always, and authentically guarded.
2025-09-22 10:47:15
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Mary-Sweswe ✨🦋 :
I think what I sense when people use that term, is they actually are able to protect themselves better into, giving/ overpouring into people, and maybe bc they have always been the one giving more then getting back. But I get your point.
2025-09-20 16:47:57
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Bymichellevanessa :
Yesssssssss you understand it !!!!!!
2025-09-22 00:28:53
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Shan💫 :
I wear my heart on my sleeve, but I will say if I get off putting energy from someone I will pull back a bit but I will always be my authentic self. They may not just get all of it if I feel uncomfy
2025-09-23 17:47:17
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Tali ✡️✨ :
God = Love
2025-09-20 17:42:54
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Karleigh Hartman :
1000000%. Glad some people still feel like this. I’m so sick of the facades can people just be real and genuinely themselves
2025-09-22 15:51:18
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