@coral.santoro: You stopped chasing. They vanished. Not because you changed, but because you finally paused. And in the stillness, the truth spoke loud: you were the glue. The planner. The one who always showed up. Their silence wasn’t rejection. It was revelation. You didn’t lose them, you released the weight they never intended to carry with you. #coralsantoro
We were friends for years, until I stopped chasing. 🤔🤷🏻♂️exactly how you described it
2025-09-21 04:49:07
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Teejay1 :
But what’s crazy is they think something is wrong with you.
2025-09-21 06:44:15
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Letty Flores :
Yup that’s why I stopped. I’m tired of being the one to call or text first
2025-09-22 05:14:25
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Hanoi Evangelista ✨ :
My thumb rule I give everyone 3 opportunities, if you say no to my plans 3 times back to back, I don’t invite you anymore. If I am always making the plans, I will stop until you look for me. Relationships are a mutual thing no matter what type of relationship it is (it can be cat and dog) but they are a two way street.
2025-09-21 16:33:13
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DrX :
I stopped with family! The realisation that I didn’t have family to begin with, makes it easier to accept and move on
2025-09-21 07:08:28
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Syarifah Al Qadiry :
Even worse... I blocked 😂
2025-09-21 00:14:37
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Amanda :
This is so true. I stopped calling first & have been waiting to hear from my mom & whole family. It’s been 2 years
2025-09-21 10:36:10
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Anna :
This 💯! Stop being the first to make the effort and it shows you who your real friends are!
2025-09-21 11:37:21
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ghas ssar :
never pay attention to people who pay no attention to you
2025-09-22 05:46:42
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ASHLEY | SAHM OF TWO GIRLS 🎀✨ :
👏👏👏 No more being the first one to do everything. Done done. The way people move shows me everything I need to know.
2025-09-23 17:41:36
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user467953443253 :
love ourself first 💞
2025-09-21 09:23:03
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Ryan Mateo :
damn this lady speaks the truth. am shocked. 👏👏👏💪💪💪.
2025-09-21 07:19:32
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👑 Charlene Luttman 👑 :
omg why does this make me wanna cry 😢 x
2025-09-21 08:46:34
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Ventsi_2.0 :
The sad reality is that if they never reach out first that means you don’t bring enough value to their lives! I have people in my life who are just energy vampires, who hold me back, I don’t feel any better after I hang out with them, I’m just glad that’s over. Now why would I reach out? I’m sure that you have those people in your life too and they are probably wondering why YOU never reach out!
2025-09-23 06:05:52
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KB :
Were they real friends.... I think not.
2025-09-21 14:50:45
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Lynn :
100%true and then the pain hit because you then notice they never cared and you never matter to them😭😭😭😭😭
2025-09-21 07:30:47
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User2026 :
Why is this? I thought we were social creatures
2025-09-21 08:19:11
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Milan :
How should I process my feeling if I’m experiencing this with my mom. Not a guy, not a friend, it’s my mom.
2025-09-21 07:45:08
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Bismarkkkkk :
What if they think the same on the other side
2025-09-21 00:45:22
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tiffanyavi2 :
yes..and im getting tired🤣
2025-09-21 01:31:12
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Callisto :
what if i kept texting and they stopped replying?
2025-09-21 06:53:22
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وفا الروح 🍀🇸🇦 :
Amazing 💕💕💕💕💕
2026-01-28 15:36:59
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وفا الروح 🍀🇸🇦 :
Thanks 💕💕💕👏👏👌
2026-01-28 15:36:52
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