once I accepted this I stopped over-explaining myself.
2025-09-22 21:31:52
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HealsAllDay :
“How you hear me shows me exactly who you are” #BARS
2025-09-21 20:36:41
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withnneka :
The misinterpretation is just a spotlight 🔥
2025-09-25 18:08:55
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FestiveMe :
Nothing is neutral and everything is interpreted through the filter of bias based one people’s lived experiences.
2025-09-23 00:49:26
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Kay :
Heavy on the “how you hear me shows me who you are ”. If I’m coming to you speaking through love cause I care and you see it otherwise shows the inner work that they need to do! That’s a them problem. If I’m trying to work with you and not against you it’s cause I’m still caring. If I’m not talking baby then …… it speaks for itself!
2025-09-21 20:52:31
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Reene Fenty :
That & some people are Ego-centered listeners . They apply everything to themselves for some reason
2025-09-23 17:06:53
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DebsJ80 :
I just had this conversation. im responsible for my word and my intentions not your interpretation and perception
2025-09-22 18:12:33
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BethL8888 :
Stop and listen. You learn so much about them. What’s said and unsaid
2025-09-23 02:46:54
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NonfungibleRabzz | UGC Creator :
This is redeeming.
2025-09-25 13:32:33
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FairyQueen :
I neede this .🤗 Thank you
2025-09-23 15:40:35
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bohizzy985 :
meet people where they are so you can take them where you want them to be
2025-09-23 10:35:17
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schatzi_darling1111 :
Needed to hear this 😮💨 (PS: What kind of frames are they? Totally look amazing) 👓
2025-09-23 10:28:27
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Thisisformeonly :
I’ll agree with you about who you think I am and then disappear
2025-09-22 03:16:16
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Simphiwe Penelope Bu :
Sis can we pls save your videos plazzz😭❤❤
2025-09-25 15:31:23
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Assault :
How you hear me says more about you than it does about me. Some people don’t listen to understand they listen to confirm what they already think. They twist my words to fit their perception, and no matter how clear or honest I am, what they choose to see in me becomes their reality. Understanding isn’t about me it’s about the willingness to open your mind and heart. And some people simply refuse to do that
2025-09-22 01:32:27
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Mapule🤩 :
I’m always misinterpreted or not listened thats why I don’t address anything anymore
2025-09-24 17:15:35
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Lindsay :
I say what I mean. You hear what you want. Those don’t = the same conversation
2025-09-22 21:03:54
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Stephanie Gabriel :
“Don’t project bad character on me…” 💯
2025-09-23 16:28:28
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j e n n y :
It’s so irritating and exhausting
2025-09-22 01:20:38
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Moonlitrainbow :
That’s their shadow
2025-09-22 02:53:46
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allaboutkey__♐️🏳️🌈 :
Heavy on don’t put bad character on me and I’d like to further add don’t project your past experiences on me misrepresenting who I actually am through your past experiences.
2025-09-22 16:37:45
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Maidens Voyage :
This is incredible and true 🙏🏻❤
2025-09-22 15:35:19
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Lee :
People don't want to hear the truth
2025-09-23 18:20:00
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Otieno🐉 :
Some people don’t actually get mad at your words, they get mad at the mirror your words hold up. When truth exposes behavior, denial feels safer than accountability. That’s why maturity is measured by how you respond to correction, not how you react to praise.
2025-09-23 14:00:07
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peggiejoyce :
Yess..projection is when ppl can’t or won’t deal with their own stuff so they hang it on someone else’s wall
2025-09-22 13:15:15
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