@mindfulsources: when i tell myself "maybe they're going through something" but i was too and i would have never treated someone that way #coffee #coffeetok #lifelessons #relationships #friendships

Yume♪ :

true but then i remember not everyone is like me i just overthink a lot and do too much for other

°❀⋆. 𝓟𝓸𝓷𝓰 .✿˖° :

when i tell myself "maybe they're going through something" but i was too and i would have never treated someone that way.

Pierrot -freak dump :

Just cuz you wouldnt doesnt mean they wouldnt.

Jayson :

hazel °•♡ :

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Silent repost

jonathan :

The truth is everyone handles their problems differntly and although some may be toxic or less optimal you can’t blame someone for it.

Scrat :

When people go through things they may deal with them differently and thats okay to an extent.

chlo 🐷💕 :

but we aren't all the same

Kat :

Timing is absolutely insane btw

Cripplingsaddness :

but in the end, it doesn't matter how someone treats me now, I'm willing to accept that part of them until they realize that they need to change. if they don't change, then it's too bad. but if they do, I'm willing to stay by them. even if it's little improvements, it's not perfection I want, I want effort. I want to see and notice that they are trying to change themselves. but as of now, they haven't changed. maybe they really are going through something and maybe it's also not a way I'd go about it. but I have to remember that not everyone thinks and acts the way I do. I can't look at someone on the autism spectrum and say they are a horrible person just because of how they go about things and while having problems doesn't justify ones actions, maybe they haven't realized that in the moment. maybe in the future, they'll realize and regret. or maybe they won't care. but I want to still believe in them. because in the end, we are all humans. nobody understands what humans are. they is no one to tell us what a human should be. we are messy and messed up. but we can also choose not to be. and now, I choose to stay and be kind still, even to the meanest people. because there is a chance they can change. and I will be there when they finally realize it. The keyword is maybe. because I solely live life having faith in people.

Fereroroxi🍉 :

my empathy will be the death of me

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💟♾️ :

it's difficult to be a good human in this kind of world.

Star(45) :

But I would

aeired :

i started treating people the way they treated me and suddenly I'm the villain that was out of their life bcs I'm a ‘negative source’ ???

MR MARRIOTT 💪 :

“Maybe they had a bad day” for 4 years straight?

Anne Boonchuy🏳️‍⚧️ :

"I never sat a a table you weren't welcome at." you did. you abandoned me to be popular. I forgave you because you were all I had and I convinced myself that I might have done the same.

Real :

real

Abbas :

kiara sophie :

this.

ᶠYͧoͨᵏu :

Guess who reposted…

a20445wpf :

I was going through what he was going through and he left me to deal with it

katie 𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 :

Except I did treat people terribly when all I wanted was to be seen

رانية🇮🇶🥋 :