@hertz.fauzan: You know, I have never met a people pleaser, who people are actually pleased with. Which then makes the people pleaser want to please even more people, who in turn do not get pleased. It is never enough. It never will be. But that is because it was never about being enough to everyone, it was all about being good enough to yourself and only then can you extend the same to others. So heed my warning and stop pleasing people. Before you try to perform for the gallery, create for an audience of one. See if you are pleased with yourself first. People will ALWAYS take. It is in our nature. But it strips you of your humanity if you live to make others pleased. In the words of Eminem.........(insert any famous Eminem quote, they all work🤣) Share this train with a people pleaser. Let us gather here and stop the behaviour. #trainofthought #selfawareness #selfawareness #peoplepleasing #mindsetmatters
ok got it,I only say yes when God wants me to say yes ,people may call it weakness ,or people pleaser, you aren't doing it for them ,but for God,I don't expect respect from people ,I do what I have to do because it pleases God not people🥰🥰🥰
2025-09-23 12:13:49
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Saint Dannyblaq 🕊✝️📿 :
Dem too like to dey borrow and I no dey use am but I feel they should buy but at the same time I'm not using it so what's the need withdrawing it but trust me I'm tired!
2025-09-25 13:33:06
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Sharifblf :
thank u bro
2025-09-26 08:56:13
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MTK :
Why do u talk to me always
2025-09-24 13:09:01
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doreenelias7 :
Are you in my head? thank you for this message, l am not alone💞🙏🏾
2025-09-23 14:59:51
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Prina Shah :
This is so true! I used to people please but learned how to accept the uncomfortable feeling of saying no and now I don’t feel uncomfortable anymore
2025-09-27 10:35:38
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DONNAH :
I am starting this from scratch by first learning and knowing who I am; “Self awareness” some clues on how best to do this🙏
2025-09-23 12:29:37
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🦋Noelynner🦋 :
stop living to be liked💯👌❤. Facts...
2025-09-25 04:52:10
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Mamies Lanyo :
U have speak my mind
2025-09-26 17:49:36
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shluh23🩵💙blessed☑️ :
😭😭😭😭 thank you brother
2025-09-23 12:08:52
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user5970306496448 Abigail :
bravo ❤
2025-09-25 21:03:21
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Obadiah :
I came across a book titled "I feel guilty when I say No" by Manuel J Smith.
This book explains everything in this video.
thank you for this video. ❤💪
2025-09-25 15:21:12
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Elvis Ranking :
The difference between Kindness & being taken advantage of … Kindness says , I see your need … I choose to help cos I care but being taken advantage of says , I have to meet your need because I am afraid of your disapproval
Kindness is giving what you can without resentment but being taken advantage of is giving what you can’t , and resenting afterwards
2025-09-23 14:08:49
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Adonai :
hope i can start tomorrow
2025-09-23 19:58:53
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Zamzam Stimah :
wow! this has seriously affected me I'm gonna repost this 😞
2025-09-23 18:25:44
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Emmy :
That is what I write in my diary yesterday,, I won't do anything which is not making me happy to make someone happy...
2025-09-24 07:50:16
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@cirushi8 :
mm naye nmelearn to say no the hard way......
2025-09-23 13:18:37
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PaynetteJoan :
I put a stop to it... and let me tell you... the fall out is insane... 🤯🤯🤯
2025-09-25 19:48:27
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Eritriah_Deals_Hub :
absolutely right
2025-09-23 13:42:12
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Rev Dr Victor Keri :
The right people will not need us to please them.
2025-09-25 17:49:35
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JEWELRY SELLER IN IKEJA :
ouch😭
2025-09-27 01:43:10
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Ãmìña 34 :
u have just gain a new follower
2025-09-24 20:49:42
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Monicah Kogi286 :
you speak such truth , so apt
2025-09-23 18:48:43
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Victoria Oyindmaol Olajire :
You are right 🥰
2025-09-25 17:33:18
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Rac❤️ :
Thanks🙏
2025-09-23 19:21:47
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