Codependency Kate
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fran85louise :
There’s no way he would let me say that many words at once….😳
2025-09-27 06:17:32
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Lacy :
Oh how validated this makes me feel. There’s not enough space in this comment section to express how correct you are in this.
2025-09-24 20:46:00
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hannah.n.paulson :
me starting to speak this boundaries is what started showing me I wasn't in a normal marriage and my partner was abusive
2025-10-01 14:27:10
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Ken Chan :
As someone who struggles with being defensive, how do I stop the emotional reaction of shutting down even though I’m trying to listen?
2025-09-25 01:26:39
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Cat bug :
Our couples therapist said cursing is not respectful and it does feel like I’m not able to be truly authentic with how I’m feeling because it has to be so measured
2025-09-24 23:54:03
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EmiliaJane :
I am not committed to this dysfunction is a bar.
2025-10-22 07:48:40
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Anne :
So challenging after literally a lifetime of losing myself to someone else. How DO I feel? 😅
2025-09-25 11:14:56
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josh :
the/a right thing is not self abandoning. expressing anger is usually helpful in preventing self abandonment. 'this is bullshit and I dislike this' is so damn true and possibly authentic.
2025-09-24 22:00:39
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channeling_gma :
I love the statement “I’m not committed to this dysfunction” that’s going immediately in my notes app 😆
2025-10-24 15:00:58
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Hannah Hager :
You really brought it today!
2025-09-24 18:17:17
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juliebowes :
Excellent content. I wish I could have learned this 28 years ago.
2025-09-26 01:56:30
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Elle :
I'd say it differently, but the main points totally nailed how it can feel.
2025-10-22 07:31:50
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Timeisntrealbutkayleeis🐦⬛ :
this is wildly respectful to yourself. And it’s hard after years of abandoning yourself
2025-10-25 03:29:46
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Breann :
This!! You have to value your partner’s influence. Their thoughts and opinions and advice.
2025-10-24 22:24:51
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Sara Jaffy :
The stage where you’re getting really vulnerable and honest with someone who’s defensive and not interested in understanding can be so devastating and so painful.
2025-10-28 06:11:58
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Chelsea Clay :
Great series btw! 👏♥
2025-09-25 01:26:45
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Grace Perrin :
Now what if I’m the defensive one? 🫣
2025-09-24 17:46:35
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GeenaDavis27 :
thank you for this and all the other parts - i’ve been struggling with this for years and trying to understand this in my relationship. life changing! thank you thank you thank you
2025-09-30 00:56:18
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EverythingBible.withPrim :
Yes! Stay true to yourself! I am enjoying these, thanks Kate!
2025-10-06 22:56:41
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Jehochbeda :
Omg I should’ve said this at least 3 times today already. 😞
2025-10-11 01:15:56
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Hannah :
How should I handle a man (my husband) who says all the right things and takes full responsibility for his actions and never turns it around on me but then does the same thing again (cheating)
2025-11-21 00:40:54
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Carrie_with_a_C :
I said these exact things. He said he needs more affection. And I can’t do that when fights are constantly a disaster and he ignores me for weeks
2026-03-06 04:04:25
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jamie._.mae :
then they say that you're just being mean but you literally will not lie and sugarcoat everything
2025-11-19 21:37:40
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iamsarahjane :
Okay so what if you say something is defensive & they say its not defensiveness? "To me that is?"
2025-10-25 01:44:29
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coolazzdadof4 :
BOOM. Ive had one of these days n felt i did just that. 🙏
2025-09-25 23:10:29
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