Avoidant men are not attracted to women like their mothers but to caregivers or empathic women who value connection otherwise they’d have nothing to push away and the pushing away is what is familiar to them.
2025-09-27 05:27:52
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whatandwhy89 :
Also they’re on the DL
2025-09-26 02:41:33
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MadiJoiner :
U said sopranos and I gasped and laughed. His favorite show and he acts this way bc of his mother….its sad.
2025-10-28 21:43:30
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Ney :
unavailable mother and absent father bruhhhhhhh
2025-11-02 02:06:36
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ᨰׁׅꪱׁׅᥣׁׅ֪ժׁׅ݊ :
Or he sabotages loving relationships, cus he does alll those things
2025-09-25 07:05:26
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tanziabraithwaite :
They become a narcissist
2025-09-27 22:41:51
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NicoleVargas2025 :
No his mother is a big time enabler he can do no wrong
2025-09-25 21:58:25
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Redseely :
The unfortunate part when they meet a good women they break them
2025-10-30 00:08:48
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Kyndal :
Imagine he has an emotionally unavailable mom and a narcissistic dad 😀 what a treat.
2025-09-30 15:11:58
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🌙 🪶 Jess :
I wish he could see this
2025-09-25 21:02:06
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Lush :
Is because his father maltreated his mother. There was no love between parents
2025-09-25 17:41:14
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HappyCherokee :
That is the BEST description I’ve ever heard!!!!! 💯👏👏👏👏👏
2025-09-25 21:32:53
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Samantha Robles :
the math is mathing
2025-09-26 16:19:34
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Deanna Pino :
Not our job to fix them. I tried for 21y
2025-09-25 22:33:07
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_itsqueenrena :
Ladies hear me. This is true and very correct but let me tell you this, it does not validate his avoidance behavior! Everyone has traumas one way or the other but yet they will heal and grow and change. If that man doesn't want to heal or change, leave him immediately.
2025-09-27 05:31:45
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Athena :
None of this is your problem ladies, if you see any of these 🚩 RUN!
2025-10-05 01:25:49
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Kia Maude :
My husband told me when him and his mom got into disagreements they just didn’t talk for days until one day they talked again- this is EXACTLY how he handles disagreements with me, it is extremely disregulating and harmful to me who is anxious and frankly, completely sick of this.
2025-09-28 00:53:35
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Marbie :
I’ve been with my avoidant for 2 years. He pushed me away for most of our relationship. Over time I have taught him how to handle his emotions. It makes me feel sad to know he wasn’t treated with love as a child. Helping him is such a beautiful thing
2025-09-25 03:42:12
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NOLALOVE4U :
Who cares?!?! Non of us had perfect childhoods but get some therapy and grow the f* up!!! But no, they stay stuck in that childhood pattern cause they are too immature and ‘fearful’ to even acknowledge they are whacked.
2025-10-25 21:09:12
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Travel Light :
Every friend I have who has had a relationship with an avoidant the guy was raised by a single mom and an absent dad
2025-10-01 06:58:42
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SG :
Your right and when they experience this plus abandonment from their fathers they become disorganise which is even worse. They rarely get help too, almost like being a life long prisoner.
2025-09-26 13:50:13
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