@kravehaus: everyone talks about distancing yourself from someone, but no one talks about the grief in having to stand firm on a decision knowing it's not what you want, but it's what you need for your and THEIR well being. #fyp #foryou #coffeethoughts #qoutes #journal

lily🪷 :

fyp is being so specific rn

gigi🇲🇦 :

i actually push people away for THEIR own well being and it hurts so bad but they always think i have just never cared enough

hazel :

you guys know that leaving isn’t also good for the wellbeing of the other side, right?

av⭐️ :

not texting first as a final act of love because silence was the one thing i never gave him😀

ella :

hey so why is this so specific rn.

..mxox :

Or griefing the relationship that you wanted soooo baddddddd

mr. dingdong :

Am I on avoidantok

Rizi :

Being on the other side of this is so hard tho

Encyclopedia Beige :

I am feeling that exact grief today.

marisaeng_ :

like why do i feel like the bad guy for setting healthy boundaries 😭😭

matchacakes :

grrrr_143 :

AIKA REPOSTEDDDD 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹 NOO

chris :

no, it’s just about YOUR wellbeing and it just makes it easier for you to cope if you impose that on the other person as well because it just makes it easier to not aknowledge the pain they feel because of your decision

wowwowow :

do y'all ever feel like "we're all sinners but why does it look like I'm the only one who pays the price"?

Lene :

What’s important is doing what’s best for you🙏

CamyJournal :

the brain is logical and makes sense to leave. but the heart is emotional and yearns for reconciliation.

jossydabossy19 :

and then she knew exactly what i was feeling

pri :

gaggyboy628 :

worse when they just don’t care either 😝

Ambrodoobee ft. Paula :

stop making decisions for the other person, what makes you think leaving makes it better for the other?

givemereasonstolive95 :

Why must you come at me like that? 😭

ZENN :

she reposted.

kirst10 :

this was her decision but I really miss her, I feel so cold without her touch, I don’t know how to explain it but I love her and I’m trying my best

ania :

we didn't work out because we both put YOU first