@shaythethey: Many people lead boring lives that they care little about. In order to distract themselves from the lack of excitement in their own lives they will create a parasocial bond with someone they deem interesting. Even if you may consider them a friend, they consider you an entertainment source at most. This limits their ability to humanize you and think about how what you may be sharing with them actually impacts you as an individual because to them it’s no different than watching a show or listening to a podcast. #monitoringspirits #parasocial #relationships #advice #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey
I feel like this is how stalking begins. It starts with parasocial relationships.
2025-09-26 12:51:38
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AJ :
Same goes for your identity and hobbies! They will col0nize yours if they don’t know who they are or what they like
2025-09-25 23:03:52
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Amoni Jordan 🌻 :
Then gossiping about it like their favorite show with WHOEVER!!!
2025-09-26 18:40:37
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currentlymarinating :
This is why I don’t stay friends with people once they get married. They want my life to go bad so they have some entertainment.
2025-09-25 23:26:04
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Mire Marke :
This is why I post chaotically. One day I’m supposedly in Amsterdam. Another day in NYC. 😌
2025-09-26 01:08:34
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migratorybirdtreatyactof1918 :
I had to go private everywhere to starve the soul monitor watchers out 🤝
2025-09-25 18:31:28
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xoevajane :
It’s good if you’re an influencer
2025-09-25 18:19:15
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at_nadia :
In real life too. It’s why I hate meeting new people. They get overly interested in me & start prying, which leads to an obsession.
2025-09-26 03:59:05
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Hannah Montana :
Yes. As a Sagittarius I learned I need to shut up🤣🤣🤣
2025-09-25 17:02:31
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tereyakisauce :
“What’s up with your life, any new drama?” I’m like huh????
2025-09-26 13:57:29
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YC :
Im hyper-private now because of this. Weird ass ppl in my hometown and family members treat me like this. I never understood it
2025-09-26 01:13:34
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anaropurr :
social media in a nutshell
2025-09-25 19:36:38
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iamshanice___ :
Story of my life. I been traveling for years and ppl always asking me when is my next trip and when I do go on the trip they all be looking like 👀👀👀👀👀👀👀. It’s crazy cuz that ppl love watching ppl lives but won’t create their own.
2025-09-25 19:21:56
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Lilithgh :
Don’t forget the resentment that develops later on because they realize u have a better experience than them.💀
2025-09-28 17:42:52
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Jezebella :
I deleted all private socials, blocked anyone I knew on my monetized socials. People are weird
2025-09-26 20:38:07
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g.m. Raines :
I’ve gotten a lot quieter lately. Really getting tired of the parasocials.
2025-09-26 08:55:11
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ily k.wydra :
Never let them know your next move
2025-09-25 18:53:34
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Wassa_Going_On :
I’m so boring on social media. My private life is not up for cunsumption.
2025-09-25 21:00:13
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🄼🄰🅁🅃♡ :
I’m extremely private, I’m never up to anything, if they ask I stay home all year
2025-09-26 12:27:19
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missharmonyj :
A peaceful life is better than anything in this world
2025-10-10 18:09:21
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C’EST LA VEE :
I’ve become more and more private for this exact reason 😕
2025-09-26 06:57:43
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harley :
is this why im so casual with my favorite tv shows/musicians now?? i have my own life so im not obsessed with anyone else’s??
2025-09-27 15:24:42
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