@jaycub_1292:

CJ :

For me it’s more of a “let’s solve this now because if I don’t, I’ll solve it myself” which means that other person is no longer relevant .

Simone 🏳️‍🌈 :

I always feel unseen by people 🫩

q_loves :

Like I can see where you are coming from, why aren’t you seeing where I’m coming from? Let me explain it again! 😩

stellasdive :

damn I’m so happy i found you.

SweetRed1017✨ :

I actually got practice not caring because I was with a narcissist 🤣 I know that’s not a good way but I definitely stopped explaining myself

Miracle 🎀 :

How about ADHD and avoidant?

chardae🌻 :

I appreciate the helllll out of you. You’ve literally made me feel seen. 😭

Julie Ryan :

How do I get a private appointment 😳

__joslin :

Supreme Tee :

I really appreciate you mentioning putting space between conversations. I’ve noticed a push from others to respond in the moment when I need the time to gather my thoughts.

Solanis :

You take Tricare? Medicare ???? You taking patients?????

Kenya :

“It was never that you were too small, too big, too sensitive. It was that your environment was too incompetent.”😮‍💨 the reassurance I needed to hear. thank you.

Taylor D :

This is so relevant to my life right now and I always have the problem of reacting to everything right away instead of thinking before about the whole situation and it pushes people away

kaylin :

I’ve been practicing this and yes…it’s very uncomfortable. But one of the things my therapist said that stuck with me is “so what if it makes you uncomfortable? It will also make you better so do it anyways; it’s worth it.” Now when I am building better habits and it feels uncomfortable, I will think of the uncomfort like pain at the gym. Lifting weights can be hard and uncomfortable but it makes you stronger!

Crystal 🎤 :

Well this explains why I was so bothered in my last video 😵‍💫

Em Uh :

I’m moving to San Diego late January and I need you for real

A R I A N N A :

wow yes it’s so uncomfortable to be on an off page or argument with people

BMS BeMoreSkater :

it's not misunderstanding that triggers me it's the reason behind it 90% of people who misunderstand me and doing it on purpose as a weapon to avoid the accountability that understanding me would inevitably bring. ♥️🔥

wRitEhAnDman :

being seen and feeling supported is the only thing I care about. I'll sacrifice EVERYTHING if I think I'll get even a hint of those things. I already don't sleep anyway

Bre :

I’m so serious how do I hire you ?

Momof4men :

I am not sure how I feel about being so seen and heard. It is quite uncomfortable. I work on these skills daily. But dang, being called out is hard!!!

user1932762860719 :

Welp…this made me cry 😢

theshanishockley :

Is this why I hv a degree in psychology just for the hell of it?

The photographer Lady :

Ion even know you doc how you know me lol