@arthurcbrooks: What men crave most is admiration. What women need most is adoration - the sense of being cherished above all else. When couples forget this “adoration–admiration” dynamic, marriages unravel. But when we practice both with intention, we strengthen the bond that evolution designed us to rely on.

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mosala_gae
Mosalagae 🇧🇼🧿 :
How to admire a man 🔍
2025-09-28 09:21:09
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imshaiene
Sheyen :
Adoration is love and desire is pleasure. Admiration is the key for men to open up to you.
2026-09-09 16:13:20
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maye.esta.loca
Princess Squidward :
They key is women will not admire if they aren't adored.
2025-09-27 14:30:04
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caitybeeez
Caitlin S :
Not the search being “how to admire a man” 💀💀💀 screaming
2025-09-27 16:57:16
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janellz08
Janell Zavala :
Then maybe they should be more admirable
2025-09-27 18:45:04
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msannie03
MsAnnie :
women = being cherished/adored AND men = admired/respected. The magical combo ❤❤
2025-09-27 00:38:49
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mishvo26
Mishvo :
Well they have to do the things worthy of being admired first
2025-09-27 03:40:31
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chanalli
chanalli 🇭🇳 :
So Gomez and Morticia.
2025-09-27 21:29:11
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hadjer.officiall
hadjer.officiall :
I definitely agree but most average men have nothing to be admired for and an extraordinary man is just an average woman.
2025-09-28 03:53:19
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tashaavila1
TashaAvila :
summary- men need to feel scene and credited, women need to feel desired and protected
2025-09-27 16:40:50
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jadamchelle
Dollface🪞🌸 :
Men want respect before anything
2025-09-27 13:35:52
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alyrosee26
Alyssa Rose :
Most women are giving the admiration up front, then waiting for or begging for the adoration, and then stopping the free admiration eventually because we aren't being adored like promised/needed. 🥲
2025-09-27 21:19:58
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_h_a_l_i_e_n_
_h_a_l_i_e_n_ :
He’s still placing the blame on women…
2025-09-28 05:59:06
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shanny_roo
shanny_roo :
I like the admiration/adoration explanation vs the love/respect. Because women want to feel respected too. And I feel like admiration and adoration both have a connotation of respect.
2025-09-27 15:50:32
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mamaddrn
Denelle Lauren 🇨🇦 :
A man first needs to be admirable in order to be admired.
2025-09-28 10:55:09
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amber_michelle_86
Amber Killmon :
Above. All. Everything. Period.
2025-09-28 17:13:22
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elskelly
elskelly :
Adoration in words is not enough. We want deeds not words
2025-09-27 22:29:31
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ferindies
Fernanda✨ :
Are we gonna keep ignoring the fact that women hunted as well?😂
2025-09-28 17:22:19
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missku777
WiscoGal777❌️ :
men want to be needed. women need to be wanted
2025-09-30 01:43:11
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bookishmomma
Bookish Momma :
Men need to behave in a manner that is admirable, to be admired. Have integrity, stability, accountability, and responsibility.
2025-10-01 01:07:02
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demsgem
Dems :
1000000% true… however we can’t admire if men don’t adore and since we are reciprocators it becomes a cycle until the relationship ends.
2025-09-30 12:49:50
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thedivinegoddesses
✨️ Spiritual Life Coach :
It's interesting how he worded it that women will inadvertently not give men the one thing they need and men will stop giving women the thing that they need, as if it's the woman's fault, like she started it.
2025-09-29 00:35:25
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sandra.relationalcoach
Sandra Relational coach :
The whole “evolutionary theory” of the man bringing in the gazelle, doesn’t sit well. Research now confirms there were plenty women hunters/warriors. In general, men are graded for their performance and women for caretaking. That’s patriarchal conditioning. We can learn to move beyond this and simply value each other for who we are in essence
2025-09-28 08:53:43
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sweetface99
Fufflez :
Admire MEN
2025-10-21 03:32:49
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