@travisambrosecoach: The hardest part about loving an avoidant… Isn’t when they leave It’s when they come back. It’s in the way you over-give love that belongs to yourself. The way you fall for their potential and give endless chances without boundaries 🫥 Each time, you reinforce that inconsistency is okay. That unreliability is tolerable. That your worth can be bargained with. Paradoxically, the best way to help them feel safe… is to stop trying so hard to make them feel safe. Instead, focus on becoming secure in yourself. Because secure love is boundaried. And boundaries are safe.