@lovegemwinkk_: so this was originally an ig story i made outta randomness lol n i was surprised to see sm swipe ups of ppls stories of these experiences 😭😞 i TOTALLY get being socially drained, etc. bc same 😭 but i’ve been hearing stories of cosplayers being highkey rude n only associating w u if u have a lot of followers or a $400+ cosplay. context: i started cosplaying in 2014, and stopped 2019. i continued again this year n noticed … a shade in the air. i complimented someone’s WuWa cosplay n they looked at me like this: 🤨🙄😐. my gf complimented some ppl, and they either had a dry, rude “thanks” (that u would say to a creepy weird guy) or the STANK EYE. i feel like cons r where i get excited to find ppl who like the same things as me, and i feel like cons r where my social skills are better. so when someone’s a highkey d*ckhead?? yk what? i keep my cool sweet PR cosplay self but next time im literally gonna be like “ok nvm! 🥰” even when i’ve been tired or overstimulated i always AT LEAST say thank u. it’s more than just complimenting ppl too. it’s like even walking by some ppl in the cosplay community, they give u a dirty look. this wasn’t as much of a THING as it is now n it makes me sad. it seems some ppl care more about clout than actually enjoying the con, or community. i thought we were all nerds/outcasts in a community! now it’s the whole glaring up and down if ur not wearing a $500 genshin impact cosplay. i never thought freakin ELITISM would be a cosplay thing bro 😭 have that “stank” energy towards actual problematic ppl. like idk??? the racist billionaires running our country??? #cosplay #cosplayer #convention #cosplaytiktok #lovelivecosplay

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lumartinscos
lu ❤️♾ msd strong :
you’re so right :/ it’s turned more into a beauty contest than a group of nerds having fun…
2025-09-28 21:44:24
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malleushornyhead
at your mom’s house :
i have a big feeling on that all the people who “bullied” those for watching anime now think it’s cool 🫩🫩
2025-09-28 22:05:08
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otter.creations
otter.creations :
Yeah… I feel like because people who got into cosplay during covid had no other exposure to the community and then just copied the same social hierarchy of online spaces and applied it to everything irl
2025-09-30 13:03:54
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shinysleeper
💖💖 :
I swear cons have never hit the same as they did in 2012-2016 😭 the love was everywhere 💖!!! Take me back
2025-09-28 22:12:32
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anni.korei
Anni :
Yes! I wrote a paper about conventions post COVID and the thing is cons and cosplay used to be inherently linked but covid caused a huge shift to tiktok and it’s lead to a lot of ppl not knowing or respecting con etiquette
2025-09-29 00:49:00
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uwucrimes
✨Boo✨ :
They've gotten a lot worse since 2018 imo
2025-09-28 23:46:48
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tsukipooh
♡︎𝐚𝐯𝐚♡︎ @ NYCC :
i never had a chance to go to cons pre covid so i will forever mourn the atmosphere bc i was very much bullied for liking anime and nerd culture 😭
2025-09-29 01:23:08
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sour.patch.delight
Sour.patch.delight :
I think it’s cause so many people were bored during covid that they saw cosplay as something to do and made it competitive possibly because sports, dance etc was post poned and gave them that kick? Idk I’m just speculating of course but I definitely noticed a shift in like cosplay/nerdy stuff since covid
2025-09-30 01:37:29
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vampire3clipse
cosmos🍓 :
i agree and its very saddening :/
2025-09-28 20:51:29
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jeagerbombastic_17
Autumn J <3 :
I miss old cons. the night raves were the best and the ppl were great! I remember leaving cons and making so many new friends. now I try not to talk to ppl cuz they either critique my costume or act rude...
2025-09-29 17:10:10
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bunnflwr
bunnflwr ౨ৎ :
i’m so overly friendly to try and combat this 😭😭 i’ve enjoyed cons and fandom stuff online and irl since like middle school (early 2010s) so going as an adult i hate seeing that it’s turned into this for ppl :(
2025-09-29 15:07:08
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kyrenaika
lkjhg :
it feels SO weird coming back to cons post COVID like it's genuinely kinda killed my desire to cosplay. pre-covid, I would want to improve my craft bc of internal desire. now it feels like there's external pressure to be a perfect cosplayer or be shunned
2025-09-29 18:26:22
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mizar.mayhem
✨Mizar✨ :
no you're so right unfortunately
2025-09-28 23:32:30
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ghostly_bat_art
ִ ࣪𖤐 Ghostly ✧˖°. :
I’ve been so scared to get back into cosplaying post covid, my sewing and crafting skills were never perfected, I’ve gained weight and use mobility aids now, it’s sad a hobby that used to bring me such free joy now feels like a elitist beauty contest💔
2025-09-28 21:24:47
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mk_the_cosplayer
𓆩🕸️𓆪 M․K․ 𓆩🕸️𓆪 :
The online community 100%.
2025-09-28 21:03:11
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spiderwebzzzz
Erin :
another thing as well with the shift onto tik tok during covid is that people had gained internet popularity and think that means they can say and do whatever they want because they have a large following (not all ofc but a select few)
2025-09-29 05:00:22
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succy__11
Succy :
its all the people who trashed on anime but when anime became "popular" now theyre the biggest anime fans 🫩✌
2025-09-28 22:17:43
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skeletongf
addie :
absolutely 😭💔
2025-09-28 20:34:41
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jemst0ne_
jeanette m. :
I think it comes with people finding a way to commodify EVERYTHING. Hobbies are hardly just hobbies anymore, people have assigned reputation and dollar signs to EVERYTHING. It’s so exhausting ☹
2025-09-29 19:18:31
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virtu4lmew
jinxieeeeeeeeeeeeeee :
never let anyone tell u this take is wrong
2025-09-29 01:56:01
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turntechterrors
KandiPlague :
I’ve been trying to work on fixing this issue in my local community! Building community spaces that focus on kindness and safety is the only way to make the meanness unnormalized
2025-09-29 01:50:10
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plushinpuppy
💕 PlushPuppy 💕 :
I cosplay and just don’t associate myself with anyone and enjoy the hobby and that’s just what everyone needs to do at this point
2025-09-29 01:14:30
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mikuyui_0
mikuyui_0 :
I got laughed at for wearing my glasses with my frieren cosplay at the last con I went to by other frieren cosplayers and I felt so bad about it. It’s not my fault I’m blind as a bat 😭😭
2025-09-29 06:20:52
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square1cosplay
squareonecosplay :
definitely not a hot take, it becoming mainstream has changed the community forever
2025-09-29 08:20:02
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nyanemis
nyanemis :
YUPP get a good group of trusted friends n stay with em
2025-09-29 20:44:36
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