@chris_hatfield: POV: They never text you first #anxiousattachment #texting #texts #anxiousthoughts #dating

Saphi🩷🤍🧡 :

I tried this before …and got called clingy 😭

miserykingalankay :

The silence is unbearable to be fair

datssojayla :

I did but then he hang up on me 😭

mrtanktopdane :

Bro tryna get us blocked 😭 her silence is enough fellas stay nonchalant 🙏🏽

beszartam69 :

we talked about this, i told her i needed her to be texting me more first, she said she would change but she keeps getting back to the point where she ends up not doing it again. She blames it on trying to not look clingy or needy, even though I said to her countless times that she is not and I actually want her to text me more, and yet she fails to change. We discussed this so many times and we are having an argument about it yet again, what do I do???

Etaraz :

ts gonna ruin the friendship 💔🥀

VoudouLieth :

No no. Im done texting first. If i dont do it nothing happen, no text, no time spent together. So I match people efforts and energy now. I text you from time to time if its never reciprocate, I let the relationship dies and then I remove them. if they were your friends, they would do some efforts as well.

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Tuttijaba :

bro.. this timing

Mayo :

Yeah, it doesn’t work if they refuse to talk at all. No matter if I ask calmly, beg them, or cry. They will not talk. It’s not worth it at that point. Now it’s time to move on since I’ve given it my all.

noo_.777 :

bro my life rn

vincent_melone :

I’ve been using your videos to heal a lot of my anxious attachment issues and it has worked wonders. Thank you for putting tools out there for people to utilize!

Laeh :

she got mad at me everytime i brought it up 🤷

It’s Angelaaa!!! :

This is exactly what I’m dealing with right now!!! I’m always the one to initiate a text!!!!!

Jalsh :

You will never feel this way with true friends and the right partner

YaHomeBoi :

I… i feel attacked

It's okay :

In person they are very caring and talk alot, but when we are apart they rarely start texting first, also they don't like surprises

Kirst Brs :

you can't change his habit, but how do you feel seen, when he doesn't text

LIONESS 🦁 ❤️ :

even when i do address it but he still doesn't text first and also takes hours to reply even on jis off day's

addiiemoon :

Truthfully, if they wanted to they could. Your gut feeling is always right.

Old Aviation Guy :

Text when and because you want to, don’t text because you need a response to fill a void in your ego. If the other party doesn’t reply don’t let it bother you.

Bl00dAngel :

sorry but I'm not the type to give second chances. There's no excuse for not putting in the same amount of effort in communication. If a person doesn't talk to me then I won't pour any energy into it either. One sided relationships are exhausting

a11y_c4t :

I told my former partner that I felt unwanted when he didn’t reply even though I know he just doesn’t check his phone much and he installed a whole extra app to remind him to text me back if he had an unanswered message and I have never felt so seen and valued. 😭

metamorphosis289 :

I love your advice so much

Mark :

I feel very attacked by your videos...🤣 Seriously, it's uncomfortably accurate. glad I found your page, it's alot to take in.