helena_earls
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Coco :
I’m careful when I speak usually. I have balanced conversations. However if someone touches on a subject I feel strongly about I can speak very forcefully and intensely for a while. I get really wound up, surprising myself and others. Then I’m embarrassed at speaking out so vehemently and at length. I go home and ask myself why I did that again. I think other people must have thought I was a bit much or strange. I cringe at myself. I feel exposed. I have to literally forgive myself and try not to let this happen again. Why am I like this do you think. It’s real shame I feel and it’s painful.
2025-09-30 01:06:07
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yaysocks :
You are so great at talking this stuff through! I don’t even tell people what kind of music I like because I’m so scared of being perceived as an individual who exists 🥲
2025-09-29 21:14:04
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Aaron T :
I haunt my own life and have to be as quiet as possible and of service to everyone until every last drop of life is drained from me. I’m slowly working through being me and showing up the ways I want and need to
2025-09-29 23:59:58
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LudaChristmas :
This is terrifying but 100% spot on- you are so right. The person I’ve been searching for this whole time is me. I hid myself so deep down inside layers of masks, I don’t know who I am at my core anymore.
2025-11-09 17:18:08
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InnerNorth✨ :
Oh you so perfectly articulated my entire existence and being. It’s exhausting
2025-09-29 22:33:02
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brittany✨rose :
♥️♥️♥️Thank you for all these words. Same.
2025-09-29 21:09:32
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BLANCA “BB” :
I’m barely learning to speak up I’m 39 been doing it since 37 but I still struggle at times
2025-09-29 23:01:03
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lisanaomidomangue :
My very existence is a burden.. 💯 nailed it👏
2025-09-30 12:31:10
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DandyB144 :
I can't believe how much I relate to you. Have you done a video yet about confrontation? Just the thought of it pushes me into so much anxiety. I will go out of my way to avoid it at all costs.
2025-09-29 22:29:37
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your gurrla :
One of the reasons why I avoided putting on makeup and looking my best in the past, I didn't want to stand out at all cost🥺
2025-11-10 13:35:23
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beccadobe :
You’re doing an amazing job 💗
2025-09-30 18:03:40
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wolfecxqp5z :
Right there with you, sister.
2025-09-30 12:08:50
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darkchocolatekunafa :
Same, I actually hate people perceiving me now because I was not liked at home unless I was helping my family
2025-10-06 14:15:47
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Imrelativelyhappy :
As a kid I loved ninjas. They are quiet and invisible.
2025-09-29 22:51:50
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Loving life! :
Thank you so much for making this post. Your ability to push through the fear of being seen is such an inspiration. One day I know I’ll be that brave too.💗
2025-09-30 02:22:51
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kate’s wife :
I remember telling my therapist that ‘I think that I’m not a machine, I’m human’ for the first time 🥹
2025-09-30 08:10:32
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Monarchs_not_Monarchies 🆘🇺🇸 :
I love your content and also you look like Cameron Diaz and the holiday is one of my comfort blanket movies so thank you 😭😂
2025-11-12 16:28:15
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BLANCA “BB” :
Your words meant so much to me! 💞
2025-09-29 23:01:48
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jenniferfreeman5941 :
It’s so scary.. thank you for bringing this very important to light ❤❤️🔥
2025-09-29 23:32:17
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Jenny888 :
I had a friend tell me over the last 6 months of setting boundaries & feeling more myself, “why are u being weird?” I honestly know it’s b/c they are not used to me just ppl pleasing & bending over backwards for everyone. I’m not being weird…I’m saying “no” when I don’t want to do things & listen to ppl constantly talk about themselves & then never hearing me when I need the same in return. This person literally said, ok I’ll just stop talking to u then?!
2025-11-22 01:31:46
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the forest gardener :
Beautiful, please keep making these videos
2025-10-16 19:17:38
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Stephanie :
This is me 😭😭😭
2025-09-30 13:41:17
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rosita :
and thats on fear of being seen. 😔
2025-09-30 15:42:58
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Crabbbygail :
Omg I need to hear about the altered state of consciousness plz what are the girlies doing
2025-09-29 23:39:04
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squee314 :
I'm the background character of my own life.
2025-11-22 18:28:24
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