You did what you did, and I felt what I felt. Now we are what we are, and it is what it is.
2025-10-01 20:39:47
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曾根崎日光 :
symptom of hyper-independence/avoidant attachment style
2025-10-01 05:54:42
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Paula :
My dad used to tell me “if the problem has a solution, why do you worry? and if it doesn’t, why do you worry?” Always stuck with me.
2025-10-01 17:09:05
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mylovewillfixtheworld :
According to neuroscience, if you really want to heal and love yourself, it all comes down to your core beliefs…You gotta change those within yourself, i strongly recommend to everyone to read Healing Isnt Pretty by Mira Hartson. Everything there goes way deeper into the rabbit hole...
2025-10-01 16:51:19
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. :
Sometimes I get mad that I don’t stay mad long enough 🤣
2025-10-01 07:34:24
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Jackeline - IE LASH ARTIST :
Being mad is more exhausting than just getting over it tbh
2025-10-01 20:48:30
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_itsmesamig_ :
its a blessing and a curse depending on who you're around
2025-10-01 09:42:14
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Sinahbee :
Anger is such an exhausting emotion. I get mad in that moment, get over it, and let the universe handle it.
2025-10-01 20:08:20
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Caro :
That’s exactly what I do but my therapist says that it’s "unhealthy" 🙄💀
2025-10-01 08:19:13
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sammy.hammy02 :
Radical acceptance
2025-10-02 15:16:10
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groundwater :
give yourself 24hrs. if it still bothers/unresolved then make a plan. not everything deserves your energy right now
2025-10-01 18:46:18
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Matt :
Just give it to God
2025-10-13 17:29:28
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Sammy Mayland :
It's called stoicism. You can't control what happens to you, all you can control is how you react to it. Amor Fati: love of one's fate. It encourages us to accept and learn from whatever life brings us.
2025-10-10 23:56:29
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DysFUNctional GenX :
My daughter is 24 and always says “don’t worry or get upset over a problem you don’t have yet” and that has really changed my perspective
2025-10-02 03:30:42
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QT Baby :
Sound like a result of trauma bonding, which has led to emotional numbness and learned helplessness within a cycle of abuse. 😞
2025-10-01 11:10:57
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Sandra B. :
& eventually you won't even get mad anymore.
2025-10-01 09:46:46
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Shaannelizabeth :
Exactly. Stop gripping so tight and let things flow
2025-10-03 00:28:11
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user3754008619812 :
Stoicism.
2025-10-12 17:51:15
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CHRISTINA 🤔 :
I’ve been like this for a long time.
2025-10-01 19:45:39
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Marissacre :
"I'll figure it out or I won't," has healed me
2025-10-02 23:18:13
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Ofcl_Marci :
This is/has been my exact mindset for many years now bc what can I do abt it? Nothing at all so I might as well relax and wait
2025-10-02 09:59:05
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Christina :
This thinking changed my life. That and I’m not going to worry about something out of my control. Whatever happens I’ll figure it out. I always do.
2025-10-01 21:35:56
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₍ᐢ._.ᐢ₎ :
this is me and my bf 😭 our conflicts are small and get resolved in less than 30mins😭 no grudges or resentment
2025-10-01 11:34:57
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dittoenjoyer95 :
Saw a Cowboy quote one time that said “you’re gonna get over it someday, why not today?” I try to live that wat
2025-10-01 17:13:17
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vxda :
I feel like this is so unhealthy I could have talked about it or cut off her but i genuinely dont care enough to even think about ittt
2025-10-01 10:16:21
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