@anxiouslyalej: The Power of Your Absence (Psychology Explained)⬇️ Psychologically, absence forces him to experience what words never could: life without you. Here’s why it works ✨ 1. Absence creates contrast. When you’re always present, he takes your presence as the default. When you leave, the sudden void highlights your value. 🧠 2. Men learn through loss. Men speak the language of action, not lectures. Loss teaches him more than reminders ever could. ⏳ 3. Absence destroys illusions. Avoidant men bank on the idea that you’ll always wait. Your absence proves you won’t. 🔥 4. Absence separates the weak from the strong. The wrong man fades when you step back. The right man steps up. Remember: Absence destroys small loves and deepens great ones. Your silence carries more weight than any conversation ever will. #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice #blackcatenergy #datingforwomen #relationships

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808heidi
Heidi 🪼 :
“Show don’t tell.” Amen
2025-10-01 23:49:07
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ariesonia
Ariesonia :
7 months no contact. Taught me he never cared. Yep. I’m sure he doing just fine
2025-10-02 19:43:29
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foodforestgoddess
jennings 🌿 :
11 weeks no contact 🥰
2025-10-02 01:07:34
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maryam.raj7
Maryam raj :
I stayed silent for 6 months he came back with same attitude now we are on second break
2025-10-01 23:30:38
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danni_psuarez
Danni ♡ :
I did that and left and he replaced me in 2 months 🥹🥹
2025-10-02 03:48:08
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allsmazb5qd
Tiff ✨ :
They always come back unfortunately :(
2025-10-02 02:50:52
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dzenkins_
Dzenita :
no they just finde new supply… they never sit with themselfs
2025-10-03 11:25:31
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laggymcstab
Elias :
You are spot on. From a man who once took his woman for granted
2025-10-05 01:49:09
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lisa_the_stylist
Lisa🌱 :
I agree, but what about when they just immediately move on for distraction?
2025-10-01 23:15:28
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aleila88
annaleila88 :
All these comments saying the men walked, sounds like they were ready to. The silence was needed
2025-10-02 13:42:38
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bjarke8
Bjarke :
The Moment you feel that you need to show someone your Worth,Is the Moment you should walk away.
2025-10-04 07:21:07
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malaika_b2
O.B :
Listening to this actually makes me realise i don’t want them back
2025-10-02 18:39:39
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elizalibre73
elizalibre73 :
I would suggest that you all read “Let Them” by Mel Robbins. Or listen to her podcasts. This brought about my realization that me always staying in the picture just enabled the behavior.
2025-10-03 15:35:09
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christine.elizabeth
The Finance Baddie® :
This is 100% true!
2025-10-02 12:19:37
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margarinetok
🌷MAGGIE🌷 :
ur so powerful
2025-10-01 22:29:33
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tiffweiss
TiffMichelle :
I took the advice a week ago (after 16 years of warning, then staying) and I’ve never felt so at peace. I deserve better and will stand my ground. Thank you
2025-10-02 02:40:23
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clare.essi
Prima donna 🇫🇮 X 🇳🇬 :
First to comment. My show is on. PS: I love your advice.
2025-10-01 22:18:32
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shanna_not_shauna
YourMomsSister :
No contact est. July 27th 2025 and never going back💪
2025-10-02 20:58:38
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kristaharris8
Krista Harris :
Or, hear me out, don't even bother. Why even deal with him. If he is constantly craving freedom, give it to him permanently. Give it to all of them. Just find peace on your own.
2025-10-03 03:25:19
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marichuy_1691
Marnieee :
gurrrrrllll.... he blocked me
2025-10-01 23:31:05
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checheezer
Jessica Adler :
But again how do you do that when you live together and have 4 young kids? I can’t just leave. And can’t just ignore him in front of the kids.
2025-10-01 23:34:08
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broccolilover_789900
PeanutButter&JellyTime49011 :
Not my husband- he walked away and told me I was the problem, and he’s much happier without me. 💔 And now divorcing me!
2025-10-02 01:39:13
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jessaofficinalis
jessaofficinalis :
This is brilliant and important information. And ALSO, keep in mind, if your spouse is mentally unwell or displays narcissistic tendencies, your absence can make them dangerous. Have a safety plan, let friends know what you are doing. Sick people feel entitled to your energy, and when you stop giving it, they can turn into actual demons.
2025-10-02 13:08:46
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withloveaureaa
withloveaurea :
Nah sis you are too talented I swear, drop the podcast !
2025-10-01 23:30:02
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shamrockshakes_1
Shamrockshakes1 :
What if I already called him crashed out and basically pleaded with him? Can I redeem myself? He left me for another woman after I did something that hurt him (no I didn’t cheat)and it’s been three months.
2025-10-02 02:12:02
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