@bc_serna: • My wife’s purpose isn’t to shame me for my shadows or humiliate me for my flaws • Her gift is to shine a light of grace on the places I hide, For her light to expose the man I’d rather not face and to remind me love doesn’t run from the dark it reveals it to heal it right? ————— • That’s why I feel like i didn’t marry her for happiness, happiness is a beautiful byproduct of purpose, but happiness comes and goes like the clouds and if that’s all I was chasing, I would’ve run the second it disappeared. —————- • The truth is I choose her because she’s the mirror I can’t escape even if i tried • She reflects the gap between the man I say I am and the man I truly am and holds me to it. —————— • And sometimes that mirror hurts right? But probably because love isn’t supposed to keep you comfortable, it’s supposed to make you vulnerable so you can finally feel safe from the sadness and anger. ————- • i can’t settle for easy love, I’m here for the kind of love that breaks me open, that refines me, that makes me better so that together, we can serve something bigger than ourselves #divinemasculine #relationshiptips #paretnsoftiktok

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earthday2204
earthday2204 :
My ex and I had this relationship. We were / are each other’s mirror and he didn’t want to step into that 😔 he makes decisions from a place of fear and it’s been so hard to accept, but I have no control over how he chooses to navigate life. It’s painful
2025-10-02 01:47:59
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sophenom
sophenom :
“I hated who I had to become to be with you” 😩💔
2025-10-02 01:56:15
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tuxtax_tuxtax
tuxtax_tuxtax :
Bruh clearly married the wrong person 😭
2025-10-03 10:16:13
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._melissa_._._._
Melissa :
inspiring. thank you so much
2025-10-03 05:51:19
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teemama479
Tamara 🫶 :
If you’re not happy single, you won’t be happy in a relationship
2025-10-02 14:43:53
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lovemakeupgal
TheMakeupGal :
The freedom to be authentic and accepted is absolutely what it's about
2025-10-02 02:16:53
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healing2324
Healing23 💙🦋 :
Wow!! And then what happens? We want them to love our “five year old” selves and then what?
2025-10-02 02:36:15
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xdanichex
xDaniChex :
Man something about the language here - dissolves the ego, my shadow, a mirror. as a therapist it all feels so grifty. because what did any of this mean. I feel like there's nice buzz words that either mean nothing or I need a translator for.
2025-10-02 02:48:12
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kaylaerod
kaylaerod :
This is a word!
2025-10-02 02:11:55
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contrastcoach
Alan | Contrast Coach :
Love that I made here first ❤
2025-10-02 00:51:07
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_leineth3
Leineth :
My husband is currently saying he wants to be happy and we may have to split. My marriage is in the hands of the lord. I trust that he will work on me and help me. 🙏🏻
2025-10-02 22:11:20
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rootedwithjas
rootedwithjas :
this was so beautifully said 😭 thank you for sharing 🤍
2025-10-02 05:37:29
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tinadawson72
Tina Dawson :
I think a real goal in life is to not pretend to be someone you’ve want to be, but to be the person you are
2025-10-03 01:42:54
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aidan.johnson40
aidanjohnson68 :
You don’t get married to be happy. Happiness comes from being with someone you choose to love everyday. The person who beloves in your dreams
2025-10-02 16:21:48
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westsidestory96
Maria :
Beautifully said!!
2025-10-02 02:00:23
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marcojwilliams
MarcoJWilliams :
Well said
2025-10-03 03:07:34
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asais4real
Anna Adams :) :
“You’re wrong for yourself” ouuuu that hit 🤏🏻😭🦋
2025-10-02 19:01:52
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jackiee.m.r
Jackie.M.R :
Wow. This was amazing. You are inspirational. This is how it should be on both sides. Find & choose your person who will TRULY help you become the best version of you. Thank you.
2025-10-02 07:00:09
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rebecatiriteu
Rebeca :
That way, you can live life fully and be your true self with someone who genuinely knows you. The purpose you share will strengthen your bond, and you'll find happiness in every moment where you feel like you can simply be yourself, without needing to mask or pretend. You'll be home in each other's hearts 💕 this is Beautiful 😍
2025-10-02 10:34:03
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kevinstolz49
kevinstolz49 :
You want a husband or wife that will make you better than you would otherwise be.
2025-10-03 00:27:05
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mami_redj
Mami Redj :
I am a wife and everything you said is how every loving wife wants to be seen by their spouses. It takes time to get to this level of realization and its different for every couple but once reached then you can attest that forever in marriages exists. Thank you for this. 🫶🏻
2025-10-03 03:45:17
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jesus_lifestyle5
jesus_lifestyle5 :
So well put, thank you 💪🏼
2025-10-02 19:27:27
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realvenezuala
jlr❤️blf :
Wow🥺
2025-10-02 12:52:35
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friesinthebagbro7
Richard27 :
Thank you for the awesome video. Sent you a message asking for advice if you have the time.
2025-10-02 19:12:06
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saratreasure0202
🔮🌙✨Treasured✨🌙🔮 :
Chills this entire video!! My husband and I are going on 16 years together this December, and this video is describing a relationship/marriage 💯 So perfectly said 🤍🤍
2025-10-02 19:40:49
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