@bc_serna: • My wife’s purpose isn’t to shame me for my shadows or humiliate me for my flaws • Her gift is to shine a light of grace on the places I hide, For her light to expose the man I’d rather not face and to remind me love doesn’t run from the dark it reveals it to heal it right? ————— • That’s why I feel like i didn’t marry her for happiness, happiness is a beautiful byproduct of purpose, but happiness comes and goes like the clouds and if that’s all I was chasing, I would’ve run the second it disappeared. —————- • The truth is I choose her because she’s the mirror I can’t escape even if i tried • She reflects the gap between the man I say I am and the man I truly am and holds me to it. —————— • And sometimes that mirror hurts right? But probably because love isn’t supposed to keep you comfortable, it’s supposed to make you vulnerable so you can finally feel safe from the sadness and anger. ————- • i can’t settle for easy love, I’m here for the kind of love that breaks me open, that refines me, that makes me better so that together, we can serve something bigger than ourselves #divinemasculine #relationshiptips #paretnsoftiktok
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Thursday 02 October 2025 00:46:35 GMT
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earthday2204 :
My ex and I had this relationship. We were / are each other’s mirror and he didn’t want to step into that 😔 he makes decisions from a place of fear and it’s been so hard to accept, but I have no control over how he chooses to navigate life. It’s painful
2025-10-02 01:47:59
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sophenom :
“I hated who I had to become to be with you” 😩💔
2025-10-02 01:56:15
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tuxtax_tuxtax :
Bruh clearly married the wrong person 😭
2025-10-03 10:16:13
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Melissa :
inspiring. thank you so much
2025-10-03 05:51:19
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Tamara 🫶 :
If you’re not happy single, you won’t be happy in a relationship
2025-10-02 14:43:53
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TheMakeupGal :
The freedom to be authentic and accepted is absolutely what it's about
2025-10-02 02:16:53
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Healing23 💙🦋 :
Wow!! And then what happens? We want them to love our “five year old” selves and then what?
2025-10-02 02:36:15
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xDaniChex :
Man something about the language here - dissolves the ego, my shadow, a mirror. as a therapist it all feels so grifty. because what did any of this mean. I feel like there's nice buzz words that either mean nothing or I need a translator for.
2025-10-02 02:48:12
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kaylaerod :
This is a word!
2025-10-02 02:11:55
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Alan | Contrast Coach :
Love that I made here first ❤
2025-10-02 00:51:07
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Leineth :
My husband is currently saying he wants to be happy and we may have to split. My marriage is in the hands of the lord. I trust that he will work on me and help me. 🙏🏻
2025-10-02 22:11:20
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rootedwithjas :
this was so beautifully said 😭 thank you for sharing 🤍
2025-10-02 05:37:29
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Tina Dawson :
I think a real goal in life is to not pretend to be someone you’ve want to be, but to be the person you are
2025-10-03 01:42:54
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aidanjohnson68 :
You don’t get married to be happy. Happiness comes from being with someone you choose to love everyday. The person who beloves in your dreams
2025-10-02 16:21:48
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Maria :
Beautifully said!!
2025-10-02 02:00:23
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MarcoJWilliams :
Well said
2025-10-03 03:07:34
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Anna Adams :) :
“You’re wrong for yourself” ouuuu that hit 🤏🏻😭🦋
2025-10-02 19:01:52
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Jackie.M.R :
Wow. This was amazing. You are inspirational. This is how it should be on both sides. Find & choose your person who will TRULY help you become the best version of you. Thank you.
2025-10-02 07:00:09
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Rebeca :
That way, you can live life fully and be your true self with someone who genuinely knows you. The purpose you share will strengthen your bond, and you'll find happiness in every moment where you feel like you can simply be yourself, without needing to mask or pretend. You'll be home in each other's hearts 💕 this is Beautiful 😍
2025-10-02 10:34:03
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kevinstolz49 :
You want a husband or wife that will make you better than you would otherwise be.
2025-10-03 00:27:05
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Mami Redj :
I am a wife and everything you said is how every loving wife wants to be seen by their spouses. It takes time to get to this level of realization and its different for every couple but once reached then you can attest that forever in marriages exists. Thank you for this. 🫶🏻
2025-10-03 03:45:17
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jesus_lifestyle5 :
So well put, thank you 💪🏼
2025-10-02 19:27:27
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jlr❤️blf :
Wow🥺
2025-10-02 12:52:35
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Richard27 :
Thank you for the awesome video. Sent you a message asking for advice if you have the time.
2025-10-02 19:12:06
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🔮🌙✨Treasured✨🌙🔮 :
Chills this entire video!! My husband and I are going on 16 years together this December, and this video is describing a relationship/marriage 💯 So perfectly said 🤍🤍
2025-10-02 19:40:49
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