@thatdarnchat: Happy pub anniversary to Fair Play! I posted this video on TikTok in the fall of 2021. I read Fair Play in the fall of 2019 and my partner and I started using the system shortly thereafter. The system shifted how we spoke about tasks and helped us practice intentionality and explicit communication about expectations. One of the many powerful takeaways of Fair Play for me was how Eve listed out and described the depth and breadth of the work of family life. I felt SO validated. It was such a relief to hear someone else explain how much I’d been carrying. In the last 6 years, I’ve had the honor of working with Eve, the Fair Play Policy Institute, and so many incredible people connected to Fair Play. This book(and of course all of the work that went into it) has made waves and impacted so many. Happiest of book birthdays to Eve and @Fair Play + Unicorn Space #fairplaylife
I used to ask my ex to not make promises he wouldn't keep. so don't say you'll fill the stocking and not do it. he refused to even do that much. insisted on making the promise and then getting upset with me for being let down.
2025-10-06 00:04:30
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YogiNadya :
There was an SNL skit on mom’s stockings. I cried through the whole thing as the audience was laughing hysterically.
2025-11-27 07:00:47
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Starsparkles🇨🇦 :
Yup. I came from a random trinket / hand lotion/ toothbrush/ little toys and socks kind of stockings my husband had like very expensive stuff in his. Boy was he disappointed that first year lol
2025-10-08 08:39:12
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Brandihelena |Direct Discourse :
Definitely a great read. Looking forward to your book.
2025-10-05 03:49:56
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Nora :
🤝
2025-10-05 19:17:49
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SMT :
😁😁😁
2025-10-14 02:34:32
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Lora :
my husband would NEVER. when we were broke, we could only afford stocking stuffers. so we would go to the dollar store, split up, and secretly buy things for the others stocking. now its a tradition
2025-10-05 14:45:00
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HoneyBee23 :
You’re still as the woman doing all of the emotional labor here
2026-01-29 23:22:49
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Cailee ✨ :
I asked him to do my stocking 2 years ago, so he filled it with a chocolate bar I like, like 10 of them. Then last year, he forgot completely/didn’t do anything. I scrounged some things up last minute but sad panda.
2025-10-06 11:59:09
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