@tara_p_s: sometimes people who perform niceness or kindness can be hard to spot. they market themselves as fair, just, and kind - but in reality are anything but. here is how you can tell and it's a lot simpler than you may think. #manipulator #nice #advicetok #fyp #fypシ
Don’t forget the ones that listen by gaslight you into thinking that you should accept their behaviour
2025-10-03 14:38:31
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Eeliana8 :
Nice is performative, kind is a character trait
2025-10-04 15:07:54
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Pari :
so honestly we cannot put all people that do that in a box because that's not fair to them. boxes are for baggage and packing right... so let's not put everyone in the same box shall we and be open-minded and still be kind and not judge so quickly.
2025-10-03 22:51:02
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tinola :
what if they did listen but did it again because they deem it as you deserving it for making them angry and/or hurting them (unintentionally, not anything like cheating)
2025-10-03 15:51:24
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ᠸ^ ^ < :
I will never forget how one said i could tell them and you would be left all alone lone. And i was like do it i can stand my ground…and they were like i can but i won’t do it. That was the moment I realised that i did the right thing finishing that friendship. Plus they forget they were gossiping about me in the room next to where i was sleeping ( thank got i got up to hear 1:30 min of them rambling about how everything i do is wrong or cringe) ( plus bringing what i told them when i was most vulnerable was diabolical)
2025-11-23 09:08:20
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1 Name plz :
💯 agreed.
2025-10-03 22:04:32
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lilczarr :
Big facts
2025-10-03 16:13:08
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user3190006133768 :
it goes on and on.....
2025-11-03 19:13:04
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Hose Bee Lion :
My covert malignant narcissist ex was the sweetest of girls. Completely blind sided me when the mask would slip and I was completely uneducated on what NPD actually hides. I thought it was vain ideals and liked taking selfies... phew boy was I wrong.
2025-10-04 00:20:49
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Add :
Do you think “genuine” “niceness” should be based in macro scale physics? Like does tax payer status matter? Or are we tryna find the most genuine Christian or the modelest of minority? Is it just based on the micro physics, interaction between two people. The best improv philanthropists? What’s the scale for “niceness” and “genuine” here?
2025-10-03 22:21:52
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lesettedesantiago :
Thanks for sharing
2025-10-04 06:47:58
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Soul Diggers Podcast :
Oh my!!! Thank you for this 🙏🙏🙏
2025-10-03 14:31:29
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Pari :
I think there are exceptions. I think people can be so emotionally damaged and it doesn't even have to be relationship wise from a parent or from a loss of a loved one Young that they did not develop properly as an adult and even though they are kind they are just completely stunted and they are scared of their own emotions so even when you tell them they need help they're too scared to seek that out because they have to face themselves and I only know this because I have been through it with someone
2025-10-03 22:49:44
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Illustrator Junpeiberry :
true... I was expressing to someone how I'm scared to go somewhere
my "friend" overheard this and chimed in with unsolicited advice and when I expressed I'm still scared they said "tough 💩"
I proceeded to talk about a traumatic moment that lead me to avoid it.
silenceeeeeeee
and they preach about mental health? what a joke
2025-10-04 09:05:47
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