@healthylovelab: Follow @makerelationshipswork and save this if you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why do I always choose the wrong person?” ❤️ 💥 “We’re not free to love just anyone — we love in tracks laid down by our childhoods.” Your attraction isn’t random — it’s wired by early scripts. That’s why chaos feels familiar… even when it hurts. 💡 The shift? Notice the pattern → break the track → choose real love. 🎙️ Speaker: Alain de Botton 🎧 Host: @Diary of a CEO Podcast #relationshipgoals #healthyrelationships #relationshipadvice #dating #attachmentstyles

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lissyd__
LissyD :
Absent father and emotionally unavailable mother, unless she was shouting or criticising 👍🏼
2025-10-04 10:22:50
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veranderjelevensloop
Natascha :
This is so true, i found out that repetition compulsion of having an emotional immature system was what made me fell in love repeating the patterns i saw and had between my parents. I dived in to this for 3 years wrote a book about it and what i found blew my mind. 🥺
2026-01-19 09:36:47
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dragosdsg
DSG :
How is this measured and demonstrated ? I mean there is also free will, we have our own ego, our own psychological growth. I am not saying that there is no iinfluence from childhood but saying that is fully and only build in childhood, again how is this measured ?
2025-10-04 11:21:37
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tillyhen23
Hen :
Until we’re healed - then we can make more helpful choices
2025-10-04 13:19:14
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minnadarlov
minnadarlov :
Omg no!! 😞 I have bein trying to understand this for so Long! And now it makes sense -
2025-10-04 10:17:01
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sophierose8891
Sophie Rose :
Wow! I needed this. Thank You so very much h
2025-10-04 09:26:37
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trishxrosie
Patricia Mcgloin :
there's loads wrong with it unfortunately 💚
2025-10-04 07:48:28
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lets_talk_aboutlove
warrenbellofficial :
Spot on.
2025-10-04 11:27:50
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147975gxvnj :
@Tiffany 💋
2025-10-04 10:43:45
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abooki8107
Abooki👸 :
🥰
2025-11-07 15:42:26
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wild.kreacije
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💘
2025-10-04 16:57:58
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samanthamiller697
Sam :
😁😁😁
2025-10-03 16:42:57
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dorothyshortstraw
Dorothy Shortstraw :
My ex husband always said love was like a reflection from a mirror in your childhood bathroom, you’re just tall enough to see your eyes, but just too small to see your smile. I left him after finding him going at it hammer & tongs with my neighbour’s wife against an oven at a New Year’s dinner party. Still miss him… and that smile 😢
2025-10-04 12:05:20
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