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Jamie McMahon4042 :
I experience shutdowns. When extremely pushed I’ve had meltdowns and they’re always seen as mental health crises.
2025-10-06 21:19:52
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FaithlessBikerWench :
This is maybe a silly question, but can meltdowns be delayed? Like this isn’t a safe moment/place/person but it happens later when it feels “possible”
2025-10-07 14:05:06
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I struggle with understanding all these terms even if I see examples. I always imagine the extreme stuff but when I search for the meaning or an explanation to what I'm experiencing I always get mostly an ASD or ADHD symptom. I don't wanna self diagnose but I can't tell if I might be on the spectrum or I'm just delusional
2025-10-08 15:45:21
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Implied_lesbian 🇨🇦 🚦 :
Those are shutdowns? I thought i was just overstimulated! It usually goes im zoning out not really feeling really or there when stuff is too much and if I can’t fix something or another it progresses into a meltdown (which for me means excessive hours long crying)
2025-10-07 05:10:06
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Ellcy🇸🇪🏳️🌈 :
I have ADHD aswell as autism and I can go both ways at the same time, an explosive meltdown followed by a shutdown with a tint of shame for the explosive part. I can handle this better now knowing what is happening and why it happens but as a kid or in my teenage years I struggled a lot especially if it happened in front of my peers.
2025-10-07 09:12:05
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gothgonegg :
everyday I feel more and more unsure about myself and what is "normal"/average to feel but its not that is more being unable to remember when or how it was before when I was more able to function even though it wasn't great I know it wasn't this bad
2025-10-07 10:44:12
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𑣲⋆｡˚.𝑅𝓊𝒷𝓎.˚✞⋆｡˚ :
I get shutdowns often.
2025-11-09 19:15:24
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F Lord :
Yes! I get both meltdowns & shutdowns! The worst thing is being accused of being lazy. Even if I say I’m overwhelmed the other person does not see that. They just see the inertia. Then you also get shutdowns leading to meltdowns especially if I’ve not had long enough to be quiet and take time for my shutdown to process.
2025-10-06 20:25:50
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Envy :
This happened to me at work the other week and it was so scary, my manager almost called an ambulance because I just couldn’t respond to anything.
2025-10-06 19:40:46
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Melanie :
This is so me.
2025-10-09 21:27:26
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🪷Aria ✧🪷 :
I mostly end up in shutdowns I can’t speak anymore my brain feels full and nothing helps everything is to much to much noice to much lights everything is awful
2025-10-07 10:45:07
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Lynda ✝️🧶🐈⬛ :
I think this is what I'm doing when I run to my bedroom when I'm overwhelmed and lie on my bed and hibernate. I've always needed to do this I just need complete and utter space away from people.
2025-10-06 20:11:57
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♤♡Coco♡♤ 🧟♀️ :
wait this makes so much sense, thank you
2025-10-06 15:25:54
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theonlyshayden :
I find that shutdowns have always been my go to, even before realising I was autistic, although when I was very young and increasingly as I try to unmask meltdowns are happening, it’s becoming a struggle to keep my meltdowns internal
2025-10-07 19:22:27
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sliceofLeo :
Can this happen at the end of a work day? As in, I can socialise at work with colleagues and clients pretty well but when I get home I don't want to interact or speak with anyone?
2025-10-06 22:41:39
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ViviJane :
I feel like I’ve been in a shutdown for months now…
2025-10-07 09:19:34
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Launo :
bruh i go mute when a difficult topic is brought up and immediately ppl think i am abandoning them
2025-11-20 18:58:54
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Spoonie Spice :
Oh my god thank you!
2025-10-07 22:06:43
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M :
Thank you
2025-10-07 09:59:47
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Sarah of many interests :
do you have a video of this on another platform? my other half doesn't use tiktok and I would like to share with him
2025-10-07 14:51:32
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Ashley :
I don't know if you can call them meltdowns, because I think I can control them so much as to only have them in a safe environment? But then at home I have panic attacks
2025-10-07 13:32:32
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skogfrun :
Thank you so much for thos video. This is me all the way.
2025-10-06 20:24:31
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stupid :
I shutdown more often in places where I don’t have a person I feel safe with, meltdowns can still happen around ppl I don’t feel safe with but I usually have to be pushed further and when that happens it takes so much more from me vs a meltdown around someone o feel safe with
2025-11-17 07:34:27
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Susan7923 :
your tik toks have been instrumental in getting me to look into a dignosis
2025-10-07 11:33:19
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