@bennacemenace: I didn’t realize how shocking my last video would be to so many of you, I’m gathering my thoughts to respond thoughtfully and speak more on what it was like to be raised in a racist household, how I’ve actively tried to educate myself on Black history and culture and actively unlearn all the bullshit I was born into. More to come, thank you all!

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justkaypt
Keila :
If you haven’t already watch the movie The Color of Friendship. 💕
2025-10-09 01:55:36
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brandoni.zamboni
BrandoniZamboni :
I just wanna say, hearing about racism from a white person‘s perspective is always so interesting and insightful. Racism takes so many different faces, and your honesty helps people to better understand what it may look like in their own lives. Thank you for sharing, I’m sure other white people will see that and think back to their own experiences, whether they agree what their parents did or not. This is the type of stuff we should be talking about, how do we fix this within the next generation, even the current generation that we are raising? I don’t have an answer, but at least getting the dialogue. Started is a great first step. Sorry for the loss of your father, despite the beliefs, hopefully you’ve made peace with his passing. Have a good day, ma’am.
2025-10-09 06:38:29
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msrunwaychic
msrunwaychic :
We really do appreciate your honesty. As a black woman I feel like there should be classes or studies done on things like this.
2025-10-09 02:06:09
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strrxscrapbook
strrxscrapbook :
Gone too late 🥀
2025-10-11 03:16:41
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karaegeous
Karaegeous :
Omg I’m so sorry for your loss I send my condolences❤️❤
2025-10-10 03:25:35
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tiffanyluv87
Tiffany❤️ :
I love your honesty… Stay Blessed..
2025-10-09 03:17:19
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mayraj.26
🤍🫧🫧🫧 :
Watch the neighborhood!!!! I recommend it so much!!! It’s on paramount !
2025-10-11 01:55:28
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ya_mom_bald
Cornchip :
“My dad is dead “😁”
2025-10-13 14:24:10
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denzelssss
denzelssss :
Thank you for taking time to educate yourself despite your environment growing up 🫶🏾
2025-10-12 16:56:00
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bourtneybanks1
BourtneyBanks :
This was real af Ty for sharing 💕
2025-10-09 04:26:20
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stacieann87
Stacieeeeeee :
Just want to say that you're not alone, my dad was the exact same growing up. He's also dead, so that throws a weird wrench in trying to reconcile the father who I knew loved his family and worked hard for us with how hateful he was. It's just...a lot.
2025-10-10 21:38:24
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v.ictoriaaaaaaa
☆ victoria⁷ ☆ :
Girl I need more stories fr😭😂
2025-10-09 09:44:49
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jxmboree
jxmboree :
i hope u get to catch up on everything you missed!
2025-10-09 03:11:51
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keziabernard
Keziabernardnau :
Sorry about his passing❤ losing a parent is always hard no matter how turbulent your relationship is
2025-10-10 19:57:30
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allirocko
allirocko :
sorry for your loss :(
2025-10-09 02:24:54
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pen5175
pen5175 :
We are kind people. We are loving people. We mean no harm. HONESTLY
2025-10-09 02:26:30
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brookiebeann
bean :
sooo admire your willingness to speak out!!! ❤️❤️so interesting to hear your pov and so proud of you for being YOU!! may God bless you!!
2025-10-09 04:15:43
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afrodeity
Chidera Igbo (tʃidɛɹæ iɡ͡boʊ) :
What kind of things have you had to unlearn ?
2025-10-09 03:37:43
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kie.moneyyyy
$$$ :
the series "THEM" 🥺
2025-10-11 22:52:19
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saffronjei
saffronjei :
I want to know if he use to watch sports? Also sorry for your loss…
2025-10-09 02:13:51
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kayahmallory
kayahmallory :
I appreciate your honesty!
2025-10-09 01:52:57
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blaz3dndboring
Lissiá :
Do you ever catch yourself still upholding any of your dad’s misguided views? Like even something small. Or what exactly was it that flipped a switch in you that said “hey. This isn’t okay.”
2025-10-09 13:23:07
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antcamz
OneHitWanderer 💸 :
Sorry that you had to deal with not being able to speak with him during his final moments. You got a good heart and hopefully his soul is moving towards healing.
2025-10-11 08:12:36
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slimcarly
Slim Carlii :
Sorry for your loss ik how it feels to lose someone while your in conflict with them..
2025-10-15 03:08:26
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lqqkc1
LQQKC1 :
Just a question Did growing up in that household Push you towards Relationships With minorities
2025-10-10 16:34:51
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