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Red :
im tired of these videos showing up in my feedback and never my husband's. If I have to send him stuff there is absolutely no point because he's either going to not care and I will be hurt & if he tries I will know its not because he wants to but because I told him.
2025-10-14 17:31:31
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Nani Kai :
I've been living in silence for 5 years now, its almost our 45 anniversary. I get no gifts, no Happy birthday, Valentines day, Anniversary, no out to lunch or dinner. I cook dinner and I serve him and no thank you. Im here because I can't afford to move and live on my own.
2025-10-15 04:54:23
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AskGenXer :
We too tired for this.... Come back in say 15 years ago
2025-11-10 06:34:43
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Gigi :
100% true👏👏👏👏👏
2025-10-13 09:30:08
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Donna Williams :
We just had our 31st wedding anniversary, not celebrated. Husband didn’t plan anything. He did give me a gift but it didn’t show up from Amazon until late in the evening. I definitely don’t feel like a priority.
2025-10-12 21:40:00
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Jenny.Jen.Jam 💕 :
I’m trying to accept that my husband is not the type of guy who is good at listening to my mental health. Do I think he cares ?? Idk. I tried and he seemed very awkward and uncomfortable. So I stopped. I pretend everyday nothing is wrong with me. Even though I am rotting and dying inside with my anxiety and depressions.
2025-11-09 22:18:43
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Andi ❌ :
Wish my husband had social media.
2025-11-13 02:07:25
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t0ria 🆘🆓🇺🇸 :
Wow…you explained this so well!
2025-11-21 02:03:54
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Sara McGuire :
I’m not very good with opening up with my own personal feelings (not having to do with my marriage) but when I finally do and get the response “you weren’t ever feeling like that before” it turns into instant loneliness! Didn’t need a solution, just some emotional support would’ve helped.
2025-11-12 16:46:14
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Caffeine&curves4.0 :
I'm the one who insisted and planned a 30th anniversary cruise. Actually thought I might get a small appreciation gift. Nope nothing. I'm so done
2025-11-06 17:43:50
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silly.g.oose :
I could never send this to him. He would only take it as an attack.
2025-11-10 17:59:13
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Zuleyma Keen :
do not forget lack of intimacy
2025-10-26 01:11:34
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Heather Coppertop :
our dialog stressed him out 😞
2025-10-17 14:16:10
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tn5 :
My husband has ADHD. He is overwhelmed and overstimulated from work. When he comes home, he would need many hours and days to decompressed. There is no room for me or the kids. I learned I have to accept this, so I would stop being dissappointed and feeling sad all the time. We are just coexisting. Whenever I try to talk or the kids talk, he is too tired to listen. He wasn’t like this before. After having kids, he change and I became the default parent.
2025-10-31 07:02:53
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sap9290608 :
For avoidant man this is big NO
2025-10-13 20:20:32
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Margaret :
Nope, gave up the ghost long time ago, indifference now, such a shame after 23 years
2025-10-27 17:15:08
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Erin VanHeel :
but if one would send this to said husband one may think actions after the fact are forced 🤔 lose lose situation unfortunately 😭
2025-10-19 09:07:46
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Sara Wendy689 :
but what if he doesn't even realizes or cares about what's going on even if I show him that I'm upset
2025-10-14 16:47:04
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samantha :
And all 3 are why I'm out.
2025-11-23 03:35:23
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6IX9INE :
What if it’s the exact opposite??
2026-05-04 14:17:57
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Jay 🆘 🇺🇸 :
I’ve checked out, he says he wants to try, i see him kind of trying, but as soon as he makes a bad move im back to, “this is not working “. I want to give him time to fix it but how do i become interested again?how to start caring again?
2025-11-19 20:12:05
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user8267203444140 :
And when you try to talk and engage and she can’t get her face out of her phone or hold a conversation it’s still the man’s fault
2025-10-13 10:01:04
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Montysmom :
Part of this is true for me. I’m the one that shuts down for fear of him losing his temper. He doesn’t hit me, but he does break things. He’s the one that has strayed from the marriage and yet it is somehow my fault. So I don’t talk. Basically, he has his life and I have mine.
2025-11-03 17:14:35
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completemom :
I don’t even try to send him anything anymore. 😔 I just have to remind myself of how much he’s going to yell…. Fuck it.
2026-06-26 16:34:29
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Ann Marie :
😁😁😁
2025-10-13 01:16:52
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