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shaddup_yakunt
Shaddup_yakunt :
Apparently the actress Tia Leone kept apologising after each take bc of how awful she felt saying those things
2025-10-13 22:13:46
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jeffy.nz
jeffy.nz :
“Our parents know how to push our buttons because they sewed them on themselves”
2025-10-13 23:59:31
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rachelbustamantem
rachelbustamantem :
This is so 90’s coded. Anyone who grew up in that generation was taught that skinny is more beautiful. We were all traumatized from diet culture and it still effects me today as an adult
2025-10-13 12:30:47
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staciabrown38
Stacia Brown :
“what did i do right?” was her initial response to the gift. trust. that shame happened looong before the clothes.
2025-10-13 10:41:39
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midmerch
Matt Merchant :
As a fat kid the “Just try it on!” scene still makes me cry tears of gratitude. To be seen by someone, truly seen, is a gift
2025-10-14 06:36:44
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yoli.275d
4ringfashionqueen :
Our mom's are usually our first bullies
2025-10-13 14:09:32
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kg9279
Kimberly :
It was so weirdly validating to me that the dad got so angry with her for doing that. This movie is not talked about enough.
2025-10-13 16:49:41
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yourstrulycaro
Caro :
"just... try it on" hits so hard because of that 😭
2025-10-13 05:04:56
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josefranciscogall05
Notoriousjfg723 :
Spanglish is a great movie overall. truly doesn't get talked about enough
2025-10-13 14:16:30
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miss_rubardelli
Dani Rubino :
a therapist once told me: there's no one more obsessed with your weight than your own mother.
2025-10-14 00:42:53
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erin1020
Erin🧡🤍🩷 :
I remember wanting to try on a bikini when I was a teenager and my mom said “really, with that belly?” She, of course, does not remember this occurring 🙃🙃🙃
2025-10-14 00:04:57
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jellyd5
Jelly’s :
Seriously this movie clocked almond moms.
2025-10-13 11:29:07
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missleelee468
🍉✿R☁︎︎Lee✿🇲🇽 :
All my tias growing up. Obsessed with being skinny. “Real women have curves” is another good one to watch. The diet culture in the 90’s early 2000’s was so insane.
2025-10-13 14:03:20
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abadface
Anna :
He said “Spanglish” and I KNEW it was going to be this scene… 😭
2025-10-13 20:49:36
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aubreydarko
aubreydarko :
And the way the house keeper didn’t even speak English and she watched that moment and understood what was going on, and how the daughter didn’t feel like she was enough 😢
2025-10-13 15:08:36
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lizziebethfreckles
Liz 📚🎶🐶💙 :
"It's not a diet, it's a lifestyle change." --my mom in the 90s. 😔😔
2025-10-13 12:32:41
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soniaj411
sj11 :
“I’m NOT getting you a bigger size.” -my mom. I was about 14 or so.
2025-10-13 06:08:12
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megsnewusername
Meg :
That little girl was such a good actor .. perfect subtly
2025-10-14 02:34:01
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ginacamargo2
Gina Camargo :
When I was teen my mom was constantly judging my weight, 10 years later she saw a picture of me at 15 and went “omg you were so skinny” the rage I felt in behalf of teen me cannot be described
2025-10-17 05:18:54
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naru92719
Naru :
everyone talks about uncut gems but this was Adam Sandler's "oh he can act" moment for me
2025-10-13 13:51:05
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cmd_419
Carol :
And then I cried when Paz Vega fixes the buttons so th outfit fits
2025-10-14 01:43:40
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ariadne10044
Ari :
Spanglish is one of my favorite movies ever 😭 poor Bernie deserved so much better. When Flor fixed the coat for her in the “just try it on” scene I cried so much
2025-10-14 14:52:50
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burgerqueen7777
🐰 :
made me think about the little miss sunshine diner scene where it's the DAD passing down the weight/food trauma to his daughter
2025-10-14 12:51:10
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samanthajean812
Sam :
The early 2000s were exactly like this. There were “almond moms” before the Hadid sisters mom. Every mother gave her teenage daughter a complex about her weight.
2025-10-13 21:51:29
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user381748487
1111 :
My mom did something similar to me. When I finally got down to the crazy low weight she wanted for me, she said I looked terrible and sick. It was never about my weight it was that she was always in secret competition with me and I was too young to understand.
2025-10-13 02:12:59
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