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Dark Flowers :

You have an anxious attachment and he is possibly some form of avoidant.

Ambersymba_ :

It’s called anxious attachment, baby. And if you’re feeling this way, he’s most likely an avoidant attachment.

M🌟 :

It means hes avoidant and making you anxious with his inconsistent behavior. Aka HE ISNT THE ONE

Hailey🫧 :

Don’t always listen to tik tok comments btw.

DES ROSE 𐚁 :

I thought it was cute at first. Then I opened the comments & OH.

Tati M :

Unfortunately, it’s called anxious attachment

Jenn :

Your gut telling you he’s not the one for you

miranda :

babe no. don’t listen to these people telling you that he’s not the one because you’re having anxious thoughts. with anxious attachment, you’ll have those thoughts no matter how much reassurance you get. you need to learn how to reassure yourself in those moments and tell yourself that it’s not a “sign”. it’s just your brain trying to protect you. it’s something i’m working on myself 🫶🏼

sam 🪸🐚🫧 :

I don’t think it’s necessarily a bad thing to have this.. you just have to learn how to make yourself happy outside of him. Within your home within your own routine find joy in the in between. You are your world and he is just apart of it - he is not your world.

Cheyenne :

Your nervous system is screaming at you.

Emaleelyn :

Run, far and fast

SoftlySarah :

Wait are we all going through this together

Highlyfavored :

Your flesh is satisfied but your soul needs more. He isn’t the One

madi :

it means ur MAIN goal rn need to be finding happiness outside of him. literally force urself bc the second he leaves (IF, not tryna be neg) ur entire words gonna feel like it’s crumbling down

5🌟 :

read the comments n I sigh

Nikki Maransky :

SvgAJ100 :

It’s called fear. Communicate. Tell him what you need. And love to the fullest. Don’t be afraid to love someone you love. You got this! Lock in twin!

Juls :

it’s your nervous system my love ❤

noooryb :

"the happiest girl in the world?"

pinklemonade :

You have an anxious attachment and it doesn’t always have to do with the other person. You might have some trauma with abandonment or even having general anxiety can cause it but if the man is an avoidant and manipulative then it will exacerbate it, that’s how you know he’s not the one.

graceanne🐆🖤 :

these comments just told me exactly what i should do. thanks girls

nenebankxs :

Just you might miss him…TikTok isn’t the best to get knowledge from it’s best you do on your own

maya 🌺🇵🇷 :

Omg thissss on the way home I always felt depressed like it was gonna be the last time i’d ever talk or see him again 😂

siennaolneyy :

You’re relying your whole happiness on him. Dependant on him. It’s okay to have a comfort person but know the difference. Be careful please, I felt the same way until I realized how badly it could be for me when things go south.

Lexi Russo :

Anxious attachment babe. We gotta get better