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mizichuuu_ :
they will “change” for a grace period. never permanently
2025-10-14 06:25:39
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CJ :
Unfortunately if you hope that they’ll change, that means they aren’t the person you wish they could be. They just put on a mask at first to pull you in, but that’s all it ever was; a mask.
2025-10-13 19:09:30
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xxlilithh :
my babyfathers NPD is *highly* affected by benzo use, he was using when we first got together n our relationship was abusive asf n then he got clean n changed n our relationship was actually pretty damn good for a few years (he still had his narc tendencies ofc but he was significantly more self aware of it) but then he relapsed ab a year ago n it all went back downhill. i think they can absolutely change, esp in a situation like mine where drugs are a significant factor and the narc wants to get clean, but the issue is that most narcs and/or abusers dont see an issue w what they are doing in order to even begin to consider change. its really rare for them to become genuinely self aware AND want to fix/change it.
2025-10-14 11:43:54
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Sara :
can they heal if they started working on themselves!?
2025-10-14 06:37:40
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ur fav blonde 👱🏻♀️ :
do they always come back until u say no
2025-10-13 19:31:26
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Ryo :
No but you don’t answer the question. Do there is something that can male them change and take accountebility
2025-10-20 10:57:48
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JerZ ⚡️❤️🔥 :
No they morph into a worse version and make you more conditioned to normalize their behavior. When you react or point out the bad behaviors it’s only turned back at your reaction. You believe you are the issue and never them.
2025-10-19 18:18:05
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Lexi :
How do you know when you’re ready to leave? w
2025-10-26 21:57:52
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Lisa Sonni :
Have you read The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism by Dr Peter Salerno? ❤
2025-10-13 19:14:50
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Sydney🌻 :
I feel like my bf is changing but I told him that he’s hurt me and he has been emotionally abusing me and he said he promises to change and that I’m the best thing in his life I’m actually seeing some change but idk if it’s just temporary change or if he really didn’t know what he was doing
2025-11-25 21:52:29
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🍓ToxicBoo🖤 :
Question is do they change for somebody else though?
2025-11-09 19:35:39
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cherylstell :
They will not change. Quit putting your life in their hands. You change. You decide to choose better. You. Change.
2025-10-23 14:36:37
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user8148291739 :
They change temporarily. They may or may not apologize just to hook you again and makes it looks like accountability but it never lasts. It’s confusing and continues the intermittent reinforcement.
2025-10-19 08:35:21
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Lucy May :
This is so true... Just very hard to accept
2025-10-13 20:42:43
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Piper R :
What if he says he takes accountability but then keeps doing the thing that hurts you? Do they do that too? Like make you think they will take accountability?
2025-10-22 07:41:52
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Caitlin :
Spot on
2025-10-14 18:16:01
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gypsy8 :
Maybe probably not
2025-10-24 19:28:09
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tab8705 :
You’re so smart girl. I’m learning all of this
2025-10-23 19:42:03
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Jeanetta :
After I finally left our home, he comes to my place. He now seem hurt or depressed. But I don’t think it’s because I left or he lost me. I feel it’s because he lost the other girl he cheated on me with. He comes over I’m happy to see him and he seems lovey dovey and then things happen. He’ll spend the night but in the morning when it time for him to leave, he’ll give me a kiss and say he loves me. But after it’s quiet, he doesn’t call or text until he wants to come over again. I don’t understand how he not hurt over hurting me, I don’t understand how he can just treat me like this after 5 years. Why is he not hurt about me?
2025-10-16 11:46:28
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Kay 🐈⬛ :
You make me feel so seen
2025-10-13 20:15:14
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deborahjo44 :
🙏🙏🙏
2025-10-16 05:55:14
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Missy :
I only really saw the NPD when he was drinking. He's great Sober.
2025-10-14 17:38:18
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AngelaGabriela🕊️ :
No, simple.
2025-10-15 16:24:24
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