When I got a place of my own, I got the most ridiculous and hilarious shower curtains I could find. I got burgundy curtains and started making the food that I enjoy. I’m learning how to take time for my nervous system to rest and it has been an amazing process.
2025-10-15 11:46:01
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Dawn :
Great advice
2025-10-14 23:23:31
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The Freewoman :
Really good advice!!
2025-10-15 00:39:52
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Purplepeople :
This is good advice for women who’ve detached or decentered their spouse but have chosen to stay. My husband isn’t toxic or narcissistic but we ended up in this strange dynamic where he was “in charge”. I just stopped. I stopped defaulting to him. I stopped worrying about him. I started focusing on what I like to do and who I am. I went back to school and became a teacher. I’m working on my master’s and enjoying my new career. My teenagers are all better for it. Best decision.
2025-10-15 01:23:37
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Nicole :
I learned that I’m a night person! Wanting to sleep in late and take morning naps isn’t because I’m lazy. It’s because my rhythm has me the most productive between 6 PM and 1 AM. I now have permission to do that.
2025-10-15 11:45:08
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