It took me so long to understand that just because things are easy and obvious to do in my eyes, it doesn't mean it's the same for others/my partner. But I can say, it is worth it, and nessecary to learn this, my overthinking got less and I feel a lot better about this stuff by now!
2025-10-14 20:39:44
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Stephanie Nguyen :
I believe this statement works when things are already communicated between both parties
2025-10-16 08:21:55
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Tay Tay :
What would I say for the texting part. We are long distance and in person he’s amazing but in text it’s a bit hard but I do want to be more connected even if it’s far away and I don’t know what to say and we both wanna make it work but idk what to say with that if that makes sense
2025-10-16 05:07:33
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honeybunny777 :
agree- this is such a dismissive and toxic mindset
2025-10-15 05:28:11
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Fletcher :
After communicating my needs 3x and what my love language is- knowing im very understanding as it is… yes at that point if they wanted to they would. In some way youd see the effort.
2025-10-16 13:44:19
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The Messenger :
If they don’t value communication in any way, I’m not interested. A simple conversation is apparently too much.
2025-11-18 04:45:28
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Kay-Cee | Author 📚 :
It's true!! Especially with adhd - he just doesn't value texting like he does in person conversations
2025-10-15 17:10:48
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Angela Brown :
I really really REALLY needed to find you! Thank you
2025-11-01 20:32:59
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Donna ✝️ :
I agree with this 💯 however he would text and make the effort for everyone else but me.
2025-10-29 18:42:39
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Aiden 🏴 :
Your videos honestly help me so much, and I appreciate you
2025-10-16 09:51:45
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Ally :
oof, the timing of this... 🫠
2025-10-15 12:51:39
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KO :
They did, now we can sense they arent
2025-10-15 08:07:56
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annikakazi :
So true!!! People overuse this way to much! But interest can be hard to assess at times
2025-10-15 02:20:16
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Christian Crucifixx :
This is a great video! Clear and compassionate.
2025-10-16 00:53:23
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Liz | 소용돌이 :
I honestly don't know what to do anymore with my situation but you're videos gives me a big smack in the head with perfect timing and somehow clears it a little bit so thank you 😭🫶
2025-10-16 16:00:22
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Will☻💫 :
i know this is a repost but W timing
2025-10-14 20:58:38
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E💙 :
thanks so much 🙏✊🏾
2025-10-15 01:33:45
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justbuiltdifferent_ :
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 So good!!!!
2025-10-16 18:02:44
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Michael :
bro, are like, getting jacked??
2025-10-15 23:03:32
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🔥❤️🔥JA🔥❤️🔥 :
I’m scared to speak up though
2025-11-21 20:44:53
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Garrett :
Actions speak louder than words. Their actions reflect their priorities.
2025-11-19 21:38:51
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Michael :
They check in and hangout with other friends yeah am done with that
2025-12-11 12:42:20
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✨Princess Leah ✨ :
You came across my fyp a few days ago. I’m in my first healthy relationship in many many years, and these videos are really helping me. I tell myself these things, but to hear it explained out like this is very helpful. Thank you. 😊 💜
2025-10-15 21:22:43
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Pavel Nový :
thank you bro
2025-10-15 20:35:49
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